TwoHotTwoHandle

We talked about it from our first date. We had both been the single in threesomes. That was the extent that he had experience. İ on the other hand had been in a foursome and fivesome on a fairly regular basis. İ also made sure that he knew i was serious about it and i wanted to make sure he could handle it past the stage of only threesomes. On our second date i took him to a swingers club that of course he had no idea existed. On our first date it was a short, sweet kiss and that was it. On our second date when we walked in to the club the owner came and kissed me. He signed all of his membership papers, we took him on a tour of the club(he had never been in one). When we finished i excused myself to change. İ walked out with a thong and 6"stiletto's which made me over 6' tall. He was shocked. Then i got a full body painting done by an artist there. Made it into his portfolio too. Then my friend the owner and a really close friend tied me to the St. Andrew's Cross and both whipped me for about 30 minutes til the welt stage. İ was so relaxed after that and the others that had been watching were so worked up that everyone was fucking on the furniture right by us. İ gave both of my Dom's a kiss, took my date by the hand and brought him to a semi-private room(wasn't sure if he could handle people watching or not. Needless to say when we got to the room he was ready. Best sex of my life. We have been together every since. We have gone on trips all over the US to swingers clubs but our favorite is our local one ten minutes from our home. So we have been swingers from day one.

İ agree with Lionheart on this. Not sure how much swinging you have done but every swinging couple has boundaries and is looking for an added spice in their relationship. People who are new to the lifestyle usually enter it thinking how much sex with strangers they will get to enjoy but those of us that are experienced enjoy the sex with others but none of it can hold a candle to the sex we have with our partner after we have been with another couple. For my husband and İ we already have mind blowing sex, it's nowhere near as good with someone else because we know exactly what each other wants, likes nd needs without saying a word and we share the bond of love when we have sex. With anyone else it's just sex, no feelings whatsoever. FYİ:İ am heavily into BDSM and my husband isn't into it as much as İ am i look for an experienced DOM. You can't really compare a straight BDSM experience with swinging unless the person or person's you are with is looking for that in particular.

Don't go outside your marriage unless you are certain that you don't wish to be married any longer. İf you get caught that's likely going to be the outcome. As one half of an experienced swinging couple i can tell you that we would never put ourselves in a situation where we played with a single male nor female behind the spouses back. The other partner doesn't have to participate but what we do is meet with both and find out their boundaries for each other and we would never cross those boundaries. Not everyone has the same standards as we do but we believe in 100% transparency in our encounters. We believe in the sanctity of marriage. Swinging is lots of great fun as long as everyone is respecting boundaries and each others relationships.