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Judy39 last won the day on September 8 2018
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145 ExcellentAbout Judy39
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Life is for living
- Birthday 08/24/1978
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Couple (female posting)
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UK
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tennis, skiing, sailing
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Judy39
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Would you pull the plug if protection was required for oral sex?
Judy39 replied to NC_Seniors's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
I love it when men ask what kind of sex I want,.. or better still, what sex I want on a given night! It's such a great sign that everything will be awesome and it fills every inch of my body with anticipation. It's also the reason I prefer to play with older, more experienced men Young men can be full of themselves and aren't as flexible in their approach. -
Would you pull the plug if protection was required for oral sex?
Judy39 replied to NC_Seniors's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
I don't see oral as an integral part of sex at all and have skipped oral on a number of occasions - no one ever complained! I don't like receiving oral - instead of the build-up effect I get impatient and irritable. It doesn't work for me. Giving oral and enjoying it requires a very high level of intimacy for me and I wouldn't offer it to a stranger. I would absolutely worry about STDs if this was somebody totally new that I never met before and that would get in the way of me trying to relax. One guy I met mentioned to me much later that my request for protected oral seemed odd to him at first but nonetheless we met many times so it must have worked for everyone involved! I respect that some people will not be a match on this basis but it doesn't bother me. Everyone is different. If I wanted to broaden my options or I if I were desperate for someone in particular I would probably reconsider, but as it stands I don't feel the need. -
First "fight" regarding the LS (advice)
Judy39 replied to InsatiablePair's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
That's really disturbing, selfish and messed up. Admit to your wife that you can't handle it and stop giving her false hopes. -
Hi actually have a question regarding swinger friend
Judy39 replied to Natasha's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
That's bad behaviour - whether it comes from a swinger or not is irrelevant, it is inappropriate and inconsiderate to keep making advances to someone who's not interested. What to do? Step 1 - a polite no, step 2 - a pointed joke, step 3 - tell him to fuck off, but if all else fails - just find new friends. Most swingers are actually quite used to hearing no and deal with it very well, I'm sorry that's not the case with your friends. -
I think he had better offers, or he thought he did. But now he doesn't and is available again. If you still like him, try again. But look for new people also.
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Daring eye contact. Confident but not overbearing.
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Him getting more attention then me.
Judy39 replied to Aerofan1973's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Sounds like your insecurities to me. Understandable of course... we're all human... but I wouldn't encourage anyone to indulge in that kind of stuff. Not helpful. If it's just a wobble and you can get over it, without raising it with your partner, do. If after some time it's still haunting you then you have to talk, but I'd be questioning whether swinging is the right thing for you in that case. -
Does the wife have to be bi-sexual, to get a unicorn?
Judy39 replied to pryvateeye's topic in Curious About Swinging?
I would be wondering why the wife wants to participate at all and what's in it for her. -
Can't see mid-50s as a problem in itself but befriending a regular female playmate so that you can play as a couple when needed will definitely broaden your options.
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Hypothetical swinger club creation
Judy39 replied to a topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
No. (UK). For fun. Not really. No. Dance pole. -
Did you consider the possibility of separating amicably and you raising the baby alone? It's not clear from your post whether it's just hubby not interested to raise someone else's child or both of you. Do you have children already? Do you (personally, not both of you) want to have children? At this stage? Ever? If you terminate, what are the risks to your future pregnancies?
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Have fun!
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Hotel room, split the cost or offer to pay if you really want him