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  • Birthday 12/31/1973

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  1. We have been trying to do this now for over a year and have yet to bust our cherry as a swinging couple. We met an experienced couple on one SLS last spring/summer and we quickly liked them chatting on Kik. We all shared sexy pics and the flirting was hot and heavy. Eventually we met them at a club this past fall for the first time and boy did we hit it off. Things were looking like we were moving to a play room but they ended up in a fight moments before Mrs. Mixxed and my very first play session. Fast forward to my birthday this past December and Mrs. Mixxed planned a surprise play session with them but low and behold Mrs. Mixxed got sick the day before and canceled. Although they still came up to our area they found a local couple to play with. Now recently all seemed well and we were doing out typical flirting, pic sending on Kik then out of the blue the female half sends a message that the lifetyle is no longer for them! WTF? Especially just 1 hour before I was chatting with the male half on Kik. We were jus about to make plans for a March meet up too. While we totally respect and except their decision to say we are stunned and confused is an understatement. We still like them as a couple hoped that we can still remain plutonic friends. IDK if they did some intelligence and learned what I do for a career (I am in one of the top 5 swinger professions) and don't agree with it, they got tired of all the misfires, something happened in their marriage or what. Just when we both felt comfortable with them and Mrs. Mixxed even wanted to possibly full swap (which is huge for her) they bow out and we have to start from scratch. And people say finding a Unicorn is hard shit finding another couple for us seem harder.
  2. Good story but funny how at the club we go to there this creepy Indian dude there that hangs out at the lockers which are near the play rooms. Weird.
  3. Good for you two glad yall had fun. I think I know which club it was...begins with a S right? If so we love it there too. Don't worry yall are not moving too slowly. We have been "in the lifestyle" for just over a year and we have done no more than play with each other at events (and only once at that). Well she's seen more action for sure than me. At this point if another woman touched my bicep I would call that a major accomplishment and a step forward for me. You are way ahead of the game and give yourself credit. Keep up informed on yall's adventures I love reading people's fun sexy stories.
  4. You might be right but the ways things have been going I'll be doubting it all the way waiting for the other shoe to drop lol. Not until the panties drop will I allow myself to get my hopes up. I definitely have the "if we do we do if we don't we don't" attitude. But of course I want it to happen.
  5. Well almost had play time on my bday. My wife made surprise plans to have our first play session with a couple we have been talking with for quite a while now and almost played with a couple months ago. But Murphy's Law is alive and well and my wife got sick with something the day before and cancelled the plans. Apparently they came to our town anyway and hooked up with another couple for play. When she told me of the cancelled surprised it was like the air filled up and was knocked out in the same instant. Once again very close to our first play session only to see something get in the way. I am definitely not holding my breath on a play session anytime soon cuz if luck would have it something will come up to spoil it. This is the 3rd planned/attempted play session that never happened. This is so frustrating.
  6. Still waiting for my chance to come off the bench and play one year in. Guys what was it like for you the first time you entered a woman with your wife right there in the same room? Were you nervous, excited, worried your wife would get jealous, etc.?
  7. To answer the question before the "lifestyle" I have never saw two women getting it on (saw my wife has done that a couple of times),sex with my wife in a room in front of others, being naked in front of total strangers. At this time we have been exploring the "lifestyle" for over 1 year and I have yet to play or otherwise get ANY action. No more than a friendly hug from other women. And no it's not because I'm the stunt double for Quasimodo. Wife's not sure she is cool with me having fun. So compared to some of yall the things I have done in the lifestyle is pretty tame.
  8. My birthday is coming up on NYE and more than likely we won't be celebrating it with any lifestyle events. So that got me thinking...Do any of you make it a point to play or seek a play situation on either's birthday to celebrate?
  9. I meant the whole thing. But I'm sure you could learn a thing or two from thongs
  10. Hey all thanks for the responses. The whole thong was a learning experience but the funny thing is how I noticed our reaction/interaction this time around. We have only been involved with the lifestyle for about a year and only been to clubs three times but there clearly has been a change in us. First time there we were a little uncomfortable, sat in corners waiting to be "attacked" and didn't know anyone. Now I can easily spot the newbies, have no problem approaching and talking to attractive women (but none more attractive than my wife), not worried about other guys "disrespecting" me (i.e. flirting w/my wife in front of me) and not embarrassed to get raunchy in front of others. We are definitely having fun now.
  11. A couple of months ago after taking several months off from the lifestyle due to some personal issues we decided to head back to a club for some much needed fun. But this time we weren't alone. We had been communicating with a couple we met online several months ago who said they had some experience in the lifestyle. We still consider ourselves rookies. We seem to click with them through texts and the guy was clearly hot for my wife. Hell the wife was hot for my wife as well. We all exchanged nekkid pics and we all enjoyed the fun. We eventually met them at a lifestyle club close to all of us and things between us continued where we left off through text messages. No awkwardness at all. At the club the sexy times flowed and the girls were really into each other all over the dance floor. One thing led to another and we all agreed to play but mostly girl/girl and possibly some soft swap. It would have been our very first time with a couple after a couple of times of soft play with a female friend of ours. But before we could play the couple got into a fight (sudden and for unknown reasons) right in front of us and the sexy mood vanished! After several uncomfortable minutes of this the wife and I decided there was too much drama with them, said our goodbyes and we split to go home to scratch the little lady's massive itch. We haven't been in the lifestyle very long but we are experienced enough to know you don't argue in front of a potential play couple. That is a mood killer no doubt. We have yet to burst out "swinger" cherry (actually playing with another couple) and wifey kept apologizing to me for the other couple's issues. While it is a little frustrating I wasn't expecting to play with them anyway despite the sexual chemistry building over those past few weeks. Despite their theatrics we had fun as the atmosphere at the club was very charged and my wife was into the scene and women (and one lucky guy who had my permission to "dance" with her). She was hot to trot and didn't hold back. Wished the night could have ended better. Oh well, whatchya gonna do?
  12. Dang dude that's just fucked up. Well nothing like your moment but we are newbies and are not officially swingers yet (haven't played with others well she has). But the first and only time we have had sex with each other at a club we were in a large play room with about 8 other couples (all strangers to us). And I started to get hard with my wife but lost it when it came time to penetrate. Now nobody saw me cuz it was semi dark and everybody else was busy playing. But here I am the man who prided himself a self-proclaimed stud. Who at 43 can get it up and keep it up for a long time, have always laughed at my wife's stories of her previous one (or two) pump chump boyfriends and I can't even get it up for the woman I've been with for over 20 years. Eventually I got it up maybe 7/10 of the way and was able yo finish but I was still embarrassed in front of my wife.
  13. LOL yeah I know. I'm more or less poking fun at myself with this.
  14. Beginning to think I am one of the only guys my age who has not had a threesome before. Just wondering who has and has not had a threesome or more?
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