Brad145
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Brad145 started following A hypothetical invitation, and how would you respond?, Insulting decline, Add this to the list of do's and don'ts for single men. and and 6 others
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You've been a member here since 2004 and this has only happened twice? Damn buddy, I wish i was so lucky!
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Add this to the list of do's and don'ts for single men.
Brad145 replied to SW_PA_Couple's topic in Swinging Solo
At a club that allows single guys? If they guy is obviously protective (why go to a club with single guys then?), I try to ask both of them when they are together. If they seem comfortable in that environment I just ask her. I fully expect guys to approach my wife, that's what we are there for after all. -
So enthusiastically switching between the women, pounding your chest, and declaring yourself a rockstar is out? Next time I guess....
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I'd say our experiences are similar to OPs, I don't think my wife has ever waited 10 minutes before changing partners though.
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If it were me, I would have just cut in and started playing with my wife. This also works well when the other other partner is unable to perform or under performs.
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This happens to us all, I'm lucky enough to live in a large enough city to have clubs nearby so we avoid the online game for the most part. Make the most of what you have and keep at it, it'll happen.
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I think the big mistake here was her attending a party on her own, if you are at a party together then you are less likely to have a problem like this. Why would she be going to a party without you? I can't imagine going to a party without my wife, what would be the point?
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My gf cheated on me with three guys in one night...
Brad145 replied to Mike nilson's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Are you sharing the video? :P -
We've played with couples where the male is a cross dresser, basically dressed in women's clothing but still very much a guy. I've had T-girls show interest in me a couple times, and while one was hot enough that I was curious, I haven't crossed that line yet.
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In the few years we have been swinging we have known many couples, some play separately, some don't. We know of many couples that have split up, and many that haven't. When I cross reference the 2 groups, not every couple who swings separately splits up, but EVERY COUPLE that we have personally known as swingers and split up has played separately. Of course that's through my limited exposure in the few years we have been swinging, tempered with a healthy fear of losing what I have, but it's enough evidence for me to pass on the idea.
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How to ask new LS friends about hall passes
Brad145 replied to Morleycat's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I was agreeing with kikonkrome's take on the post he quoted, seems slightly less than honorable to put it mildly. -
How to ask new LS friends about hall passes
Brad145 replied to Morleycat's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Just goes to show what kind of people are out there...and on this board. -
We meet couples at clubs for the most part, and yes we play at first meeting.