Emy_Fraser

Most of the time it's thongs for me and ALWAYS boxers for Fraser. I hate thongs or tiny briefs on guys, especially when they are not the slimmest or fittest! One couple we met a while back, actually we still see them and they are a nice couple, the husband is about Fraser's age (mid 40's) and when he took his kit off he was wearing the most awful leather posing pouch underneath his trousers!! I nearly burst out laughing there and then, Fraser looked and then looked at me and just raised an eyebrow - how I didn't choke trying not to laugh I'll never know! We know them quite well now and I sometimes tease him about his posing pouch, he takes it very well! LOL

This is so true. I am very tight, no kids, and also sometimes if the guy isn't very good at getting me ready I can tense up so its hard to get a finger in there. However, we do meet one couple where the husband is what I would call very large but he's really good with it and takes his time. I can manage him fine but I think he's a very good lover. The first time we met them Fraser was supposed to be playing the the wife of the couple and he asked for a time out so he could watch me and the husband, as he couldn't believe I had managed to take him. So I think I can manage large ones but its my opinion that a lot of the guys with big ones are not the best at using them.

We got into this so I could meet other bi ladies. It seemed the only way, and I didn't want to do stuff without Fraser. At the start I was worried about him seeing me with other men and I wasn't sure I wanted it anyway. However, he does enjoy watching me getting "a good seeing to" as he puts it and knowing that turns me on too.

No, of course it didn't mean we wanted to marry them. Doh! It was just a very wild night.

After our first time, it was "WOW, why didn't we do this ages ago!" We were both on a high for several days afterwards and our sexlife was greatly increased. We were very lucky I think that we met a totally genuine and nice couple as our first. We felt so close to them that first night that none of us wanted the night to finish and ended up all sleeping together in our kingsize and then carrying on the next morning where we left off. We still see them as often as we can, unfortunately they live in the "wilds" of deepest North Wales so it has to be a special trip to meet up. Since then we have met 9 couples (apart from playing at a club) and some have been not so good but when its good its still just as good. Out of the 9 we are firm friends with 3 of those couples now - by that we mean we keep in touch on the phone probably weekly and see them often, not just for "play time", but social dates such as bowling, I can beat Fraser hands down at 10pin . or meeting up for a meal. One of the reasons we started was to increase our circle of friends and it worked. Emy