Thanks you guys for your replies. I appreciate it.
As far as what intuition897 said, I would say that my wife enjoys sex with me immensely! But she has also made some very brief, yet strong remarks about some fantasy she has of having sex with a woman. I guess the answer to your question about her sexual orientation would be: I don’t know. I just dont want to risk opening that can of worms!
Are there *signs* of being lesbian? And what are they? I guess thats the real question. Until Im fully aware of the potentials, I don’t think its worth risking my marriage.