NMCpl505

Thanks for the input guys. The wife and I have discussed it quite a bit and are both comfortable with her spending a little time alone with him on a one time basis, no dating, etc,. The three times we've all been together have been just great but he still seems a little timid and unsure of his role in all of this. We ckind of thought that he might loosen up a bit and talk a little more about his desires etc if I was'nt in the room, as well as her assurring him that he's an equal partner in this arrangement and that we want him to realize his fantasies as well as us ours. Again thanks for the input...I'll share your thoughts with the wife and maybe rethink it just one more time.

Wife and I are currently involved in what is beginning to look like a long term threesome with a great single gent we met about six months ago. We're currently enjoying a mm-f relationship and have gotten together, as a 3some, three times so far but the wife and our new lover have not been alone with each other yet. We've read that it is good for the wife and new partner to have some private time with each other so as to get a bit more comfortable in the relationship in learning each others likes and desires in sex. We've discuss letting this happen on our next get together with him. I will be in the house but they will be in a bedroom without me. My question is does any one have any opinions on this, pro or con? How long should I let them be alone together? Any help in this matter would be appreciated.