We are new to this as a couple and my wife has never complained about me, my penis size or the way I use it. We have a awesome sex life and have no complaints.
But, for some odd reason, I have this complex about the size of my own penis when it comes to swinging.
Now, I'm an average white guy sporting about 7" when I'm really excited, and an average thickness.
The woman of the other couple is African American, and her previous partner was a really well hung male (like a 3rd leg) She doesn't seem to care about size, and has stated that she likes everything about me (her current partner is the same size as me) but I'm always wondering in the back of my mind what she will do with me inside of her (we haven't gotten that far yet)
Of course, this "concern" has caused me anxiety and a lack of strong lasting erection the first two times we soft swapped.
Does size really matter to women in this lifestyle, or am I just overly concerned with this stupid idea?
Thanks,
Chuck