Sawman
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Sawman last won the day on September 4 2018
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- Birthday 01/15/1948
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Relationship Status
Single male
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Location
Seattle
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Interests
woodworking, amateur radio, reading, cycling flirting
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Occupation
Writer
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Swinging Experience
Special guest star for couples for 20 years
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xx/xx/xxxx
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If it were legal - would you sell your sex?
Sawman replied to ohhandahh's topic in Curious About Swinging?
My fantasy, but women are very territorial -
Sawman started following How old is too old?, Frog Chair at Defunct New Horizons, Lynnwood, WA, What the hell is wrong with people? and and 6 others
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Gangbangs are tricky to organize, but I learned some things setting up two and attending many more. First you have to find a pool of guys nearby who are interested. Back in the day you could get a couple hundred lookie loos on Craigs List. Other dating sites will have to suffice now. Indicate any age paramenters and set boundaries such as, bring your own towel, protection, any boundaries she has. Next, establish a date, time, and place (hotel) where it will happen. Reserve the room. Extract from those who express interest a telephone number. No number, no party. This will winnow down the number. On the day of, after you get the room call each man and give him the information when to be there. You can have her in the room waiting or arrive after the players arrive. If you have someone you trust who can wait in the room for you or escort her to the room that would help. In one party she arrived and outside the door donned a blindfold—her fantasy. Main rule is to have a guy or two managing things, to watch her back, so to speak. Party on!
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This is the one. If only I had a better view of the construction. I would like to build something that is disguised during the week or can be assembled. Maybe there are "field expedients" that can be assembled from g-rated furniture. This sort of furniture might also be described as a queening chair, but examples online do not support the legs.
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Swinging sexual chemistry from online chat?
Sawman replied to harryandmaria's topic in Finding People to Swing With
I find chat and email to be essential in presenting myself and in learning about the other parties. I look for literacy and as much chemistry as can be established online. The next step is the meet and greet, one hour only. A first date would be another time to give all parties the opportunity to withdraw. -
1st Gangbang - Uncomfortable with how she was treated
Sawman replied to midlifecrisis's topic in First Swinging Experiences
How are couples organizing gang bangs in the post-Craigs List era? I have been to several and organized two. -
That's why the call it dating. If someone can't come out for coffee or an adult beverage, one hour maximum, they aren't for real. Meet and greet, no thank you, is the adult thing to do.
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CBS News Documentary on Non-Monogamy
Sawman replied to Fitlakecouple's topic in Swingers and Sex Positivity in the News
I am dubious about the figures. Unless there is a census question honestly answered, any measure will be inaccurate.- 7 replies
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Party hosting tips?
Sawman replied to PebblesCanDo's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
Hosting another couple or two doesn't seem like a party, but if it's overnight some planning and communication is appropriate. ITSM that more than three couples might mean full-time work and no sex for the hosts. Make sure there is enough TP and lots of towels. -
She has the absolute right to set any limits she wants and any man you invite in must respect her decisions. I am that special guest star and am happy to set that sort of boundary. Indeed, that takes the pressure off me to perform while still get the sense of intimacy and giving pleasure. There are so many wonderful things play partners can do besides penetration and discharge. You can put her limits in a profile, but consider saving that for the communication after he answers. Smoking is more important to me than a request for no penetration.
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Texting/sexting with swing partners?
Sawman replied to fortworth's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I caution my friends not to text anything explicit. Phones are laid around and if notifications is turned on, he message will appear on the screen. People for whom the messages are not intended can see the information. In my case, "do you want to ride motorcycles this weekend" indicates interest in play. Keep texting to an absolute minimum to things like setting dates as above and last minute changes. -
In any threesome there is a point where it is a two-some with the third not having an active role. This can often cause some discomfort and even hurt if they players don't understand this and even talk about it. I've been the special guest star and recognize when the couple are into each other and not me. I try to do what I can to let them enjoy even if I just stay close. A couple not prepared for this can be caught off guard. Good communication is the ultimate intimacy.
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Threesome - with two female or two guys?
Sawman replied to Naughtyvanessa's topic in Curious About Swinging?
For this male two women is sensory overload, like chocolate cake that makes your teeth ache. -
Start on a conventional dating site and lead with the relationship. Any LTR will have conditions, family, religion, children, career, etc. Non-monogamy can be one, but don't put that in an ad or in a response to an ad. Start with the connection. The other conditions will have to work before you get to monogamy. If you can communicate with someone your dating history will come up and be the basis for discussion. Go easy on your desire for an open relationship. There is plenty in a LTR that will go sideways not just this. Be yourself.