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playfulchick89 started following Private Swing Parties and BDSM, I need some advice! FWB acting reluctant, Do you play on the first date? and and 7 others
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I have found someone I would like to be in more of a FWB situation rather than relationship but open to the possibility of it being long term. But labels aside, I've gotten the feeling my new friend has some reservations/hesitation because I'm married. He obviously knows this is okay, but I'm having a hard time getting him to follow through on meeting up since I asked him. Is there anything I should/could say or do to help ease his mind?
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When we go to parties, we try to. But off a site, we have, but won't be again.
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My profile says something along the lines of we're happily married and seek the same in friends and playmates. But the happiness is what we focus on. We certainly aren't expecting people to show us a marriage certificate, so I guess it doesnt really matter. We have backed out from couple's, married and dating who we could tell one of them really wasn't feeling it. For the first time ever for us, we're meeting a couple next weekend with a whole bunch of other 'firsts'- they're close to our age, only engaged. It will simply depend on their relationship and our connection!
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It's hard not to get discouraged! Brush it off and get back to hunting. This time, chat up a few couple's. Give yourselves a few options and have fun with it. I have learned to see the signs of people not ready and not give too many chances. I recently had a misunderstanding via messages with a unicorn, and we won't be grovelling. My husband and I are good fucks so it's her loss! ??
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My husband and I are both 28 so we typically play with older couples-usually 40s. We rarely get messages and at parties very few people approach us until we've 'proved ourselves'. The age difference doesn't bother us. We love hearing from couple's who have been married 20+ years and their kids are grown. Those are the people we make friends with, because have littles, it's easier if only one couple's kids are younger. I think it'd be difficult to plan stuff around both couple's having little ones. We have yet to play routinely with anyone close to our age but we have had our one night stands. Age doesn't matter to me if someone can keep up. At parties I like to dance and have fun, if someone sits at the bar the whole time I won't be interested.
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I don't notice unless someone is being super obvious. And then I assume I'm having a wardrobe malfunction. ??
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So would that just be voyeur? Or because she gets off on it makes it cuck?
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Private Swing Parties and BDSM
playfulchick89 replied to baldbeaver51's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
I didn't read all of the responses, but I've attended a house party for swinging and BDSM. The hosts had 2 bedrooms upstairs for playing; one room had a bed and restraint chair, the other a couch and spanking bench. Down stairs they had couches and massage table where fire play was demo'd and a St Andrews cross. There were people participating in either style and it was a lot of fun. Some just watched. It wasn't awkward for anyone who wanted one style and not the other. -
Hmm, where to begin... Bondage- from ropes, cuffs, I like to be completely immobilized Chains- also used for bondage but I love the feel and especially the sound Flogging- I have cum from being hit
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I'm looking for some help with definitions. I came across a profile where the woman wants to watch her man with other women and is also bi, but doesn't want to play with other men. It says she's into cuckqueening and after expressing interest, the male half clarified they are looking for mmf, or mff. So, in looking into things I've found this means she gets off on watching her man with another woman and some are into humiliation which I'm confused on who is getting humiliated. I also got curious and viewed some porn where the woman simply watches. Anyone with experience have any advice? I am obviously planning on talking it out on exactly how things are to be played out, but I'm curious as to what cuckqueening typically entails.