NoAngels

What kind of flags? I’m missing something I don’t understand. I just reread your last post, what most excited you about the party?

My Angel belongs to a Cheaters site or an Affairs site, she doesn’t want to get involved with anyone long term, she’s stuck with me. She tells me the biggest complaint she hears from the men are sexless marriages with most men claiming they love their wives. If she enjoys a man she’ll meet him a little longer, the men who are idiots or not fun are one and done. Some men have several affairs going on the same time which has led her to threesomes and inviting me which is my reward for her membership. I don’t need to watch her with the men, at first I didn’t want to know, now I enjoy the stories, know the names, and love she has bi sex, which I did enjoy watching. Oh, cumming too soon, those are the one and done for her.

I worried when I was younger and trying to impress the girls I dated, I haven’t thought about it in years. My Angel has experienced premature cummers as she calls it. She meets married men for short term affairs and has told me a number of times that her meetings were bummers. When she first started meeting men I could tell when things didn’t go well without her telling me, I never asked. More recently we talk openly about our meetings, she tells me the good, the bad and the ugly. Some men aren’t able and that gives her self doubt. She needs time herself, coming home frustrated when men are quick, cumming from foreplay to a few strokes, she claims she will fake it with some. I can tell when a man satisfies her when she has a few dates with him. My experience with married women is they are happy to have sex with a man who wants to satisfy. I haven’t had as many affairs as my wife, I do enjoy the variety. Many have said they haven’t cum in years, some never received oral, and some are very excitably.

When we opened our marriage my Angel joined an extramarital site and found it very easy to find men willing to no attachment affairs. My play was limited to a few business trip affairs that was limited because of Covid limiting travel time. Where she was out often my play was based on her setting up dates through her connections. I can’t say I struggle finding dates we decided to sign me up for my own account on the site she is on which is much more expensive for men. She is much better in filtering out the scams and finding some very eager married women for my meetings. I’m always skeptical of the motives of women on the site yet have found women are no different from men on the site just wanting more. It works for us because we are open, talk and understand the freedom.

We have an open marriage. My Angel meets many more men than I meet women. My only concern is her safety meeting men she meets online.

I rather watch a woman suck me. I even enjoy watching my wife sucking me.

Unlike others on here I don’t enjoy watching my Angel suck her friends. Our sex lives are open to meeting others alone. I see most swingers do things together where we meet others apart mostly. I much rather see her eat a woman.

I had a few dates in my life that smelled fishy now I know why

Sugarbaby is a euphemism to me. Nothing wrong with that just call it what it is. Women are lucky in that they can have fun and be rewarded for it. My Angel is not a sugar baby, doesn’t look for sugar daddies yet has been rewarded with gifts without asking. I ask does a man who cheats or has affairs brings gifts to the woman he meets can qualify as a sugar daddy? I don’t mind my wife meeting men for sex, I cheated before her. She makes her own decisions in her sexual choices with me at times helping her find men on her cheaters group. From a husband’s view I noticed she has come home with new things after her meetings. I at first never asked questions now she shares more. She once said she was left $$, we laughed and I said great let’s go for dinner. It’s amusing that she meets men for her pleasure not for gifts or friendship and then gets rewarded.

My Angel came home after a tryst looking pained. She meets married men from a cheaters group with my knowledge and shares all with me. She’s a great actress in her sexting messages she has before meeting the married men. The majority are in sexless or very vanilla marriages looking to work out his sexual thoughts. Rape Play is real, I read his messages and her answers. She set boundaries and told me she had safe words and promised to keep her phone close. I asked her if he hurt her, Yes. With a smile. Did he stop? Once when I used the word. She said she enjoyed the role playing with the pain bringing a strange pleasure. I’m happy she isn’t in a worse condition after her role playing doing something I couldn’t do before knowing she enjoys it.

I would be audio interview taped anonymously.

I won’t call it a desire, I have had an ongoing relationship with a woman of color for years. She was not an attraction because of color, more that she is a wonderful person that enjoys fun and laughs even though she knew I was married when we met. She is also a beautiful person physically, thin, small breasts and perfect butt. I don’t mention a peculiar difference, she gets white foamy when we play, something she says is just her lubrication.

I the man cheated which caused her to cheat which strangely brought our relationship closer. If I hadn’t cheated first I don’t believe I could have accepted her being with other men. Ironically most of her partners are married cheaters looking for affairs.

I started as a cheater having several affairs on business trips. My Devil wife meets cheaters almost exclusively on Ashley Madison. She doesn’t want a long term relationship or to break up a marriage. She says with many bogus profiles by women she has no problem finding men that she chooses. As wrong as it sounds she met men who have more women they meet which led to her having threesomes and invited me to join as a fourth. I read that every day thousands join affair sites, AM, Adult Friend Finder, Seeking and Victoria Milan.

My feeling is most have entered into swinging in a way much different from the way I did. I didn’t go looking for a swinger I met women who I became attracted to in a social or business environment. Physical attraction might have been the impetus to form a friendship where I was able to see more to the person. I never hid my marriage and then spending a night was a natural progression. My wife had a different path finding men online. She didn’t get to know personalities before agreeing to meet them. Profiles, pictures and maybe a pre meet conversation, she is less interested in the person more in the physical. My wife has set up the meetings I am involved with, I have gone along for the most part. It is hard to turn down sex. I just wish I had interest in the partners of the men she finds. Meeting others on here is an interesting thought. I’m not sure what anyone looks like, I know there are some pictures posted. Drinks and dinner, some laughs and stories, most of the interesting posts that are real are from a different generation I suspect.