Thanks to everyone for the responses.
No, it isn't. It is something we both have interest in but are worried about hurting what we have built together. That is why we are trying to learn all we can beforehand.
Emotional issues abound.
What if its better with someone else?
What if you fall in love?
What if, what if what if...
Dealing with other emotional beings in one of their most primal/enlighted states is not something to take on lightly.
At some point you just have to jump in or go home I guess.