sayers3948

" 1) Are you feeling any twinges of jealousy during play, seeing and hearing him in the thro of pleasure with another woman?" **Yes, I admit that there are some twinges of jealousy there. I worry that he will find sex more pleasing with the other woman. I know he loves me, I know we're going home together etc, and I don't want to feel jealous. But I am jealous because I didn't reach orgasm and the woman he was with did. and that made me feel left out. I know I'm about to sound ridiculous here, but I was like "she got to cum, the guy I was with did too, what about me? Where's my pleasure?" I felt he should have noticed I wasn't being pleasured enough by the other man and should have came over and helped. if he had done that it would have made a world of difference to me. It would have made me feel that even though he was doing what he was with the other woman, he still had my pleasure at heart. What do I do in this situation? Smile and act like everything is ok when it's not just to make everyone else happy and more comfortable?

Hello I am new to the lifestyle while my husband is acquainted with it. Because I am new and have some minor insecurities, he has agreed to ease me into it and has set some boundaries. He has told me that playing together means, he wants us involved in everything, every aspect of swapping together as a couple. He does not want me to feel left out of any part of this experience and he does not want me sitting there twiddling my thumbs waiting for him to finish, he says if I happen to finish first with the other male, he wants me to join him and the other woman and he in turn plans to join me and the other male if he finishes first. He said he also plans to re-connect with me throughout the experiences to make sure I am comfortable and being taken care of. We have agreed always same room, always play together, never any solo play at all. In addition, if we happen to find a couple we connect with, he is leaving it up to me to make any play dates. No means no, and if any time throughout any play time I become uncomfortable, we stop. We have set some personal boundaries too, such as he is not to use certain terms of endearment that he uses with me (honey, babe, baby) when he is having sex with another woman. I explained to him that I am so used to him calling me these sweet names that I feel they belong to me and me alone, in addition, I do not want him to have “afterglow” cuddling with the other woman either. We had our first couples play this past weekend, where he only received oral from the other female and I on the other had full sex from the other male, plus my first bi experience with the other woman too, and that alone was amazing!!! Afterwards, while we were all laying there, he held me and I asked him if he came with the other woman and he told me he did not. He told me he wanted our first several experiences together to be about my pleasure. He told me how happy he was for me that I enjoyed myself and how much he loved me; and he said I gave him the best surprise when the other female and I enjoyed each other. I told him I did not cum, that things went to fast for me to have any release, and then with the other couple still there, he made the most passionate love to me and we both came together. While I enjoyed watching him receive oral from the other woman, and the fact that he did not cum with her, made me feel even more relaxed. My dilemma is that I am not certain how I am going to feel when he actually does cum with another woman. I think that as long as he abides by the personal boundaries of no terms of endearment and no afterglow cuddling I will be ok. What do you all think?

Hi my husband and I met a couple that we think would be great to play with. Lots of sexy communication between all of us for a week. Had a meet n greet, laid out ground rules and all things were a go. During meet n greet the other guy say next to me rubbing my leg, placed my hand on his dick for a quick touch under the table. My husband asked the wife if he could touch her leg under the table and she freaked out on him. Saying no pda no pda. Mind you this is the same woman who was telling him during the week how she wanted to suck his dick etc. This is the same woman who invited us to meet them at a Halloween party the next night and after we were supposed to go to their house to play. Party night arrives, we got there first. They show up and sit with us for about 15 minutes then get up to mingle. Well they pretty much ignored us the rest of the night so we started mingling too. We were having a blast meeting new people and out the corner of my eye I see them leaving with no good bye, they stiffed us on our play date The next day I texted them asking what was up. The husband tells me that my hubby reminded her of her ex husband and if she were to kiss him it would be like being with her ex. He told me they both wanted and liked me and were both attractive me. I'm like WTF? It's not like she didn't know what he looked like before all this and we did meet each other. So my question is were we played out?