paul n gemma

Hi, we are a couple, we both want to swing, only with other males though, it turns me on thinking of my partner having fun while i watch, join in. I (male)p first brought it up, female g reluctant at first but she has slept with an old boyfriend (i wasn't there, he's very unreliable and always lets us down for a threesome) loved it and loved the pics. i feel very guilty about this, like I'm a perv, g has reassured me I'm not but would love other peoples advice, and to chat about it.