I too, love to watch my wife with another man. I agree with one of the other posts, sometimes it's just too difficult to connect with another couple so everyone is happy. I have been watching her for a few years now. Although sometimes we strike out trying to find single guys (she will only play out of town) we have had some great times. There is nothing more exciting than hiding in our hotel room after we met a single guy, and he thinks I'm still downstairs, and watching the two of them going crazy. Can't explain it.