So here goes. My husband and I are swingers but currently we are trying to conceive and have been trying since November without an results. It is me not him, so therefore I am seeing a fertility specialist and am on fertility meds. We are really leery about swapping with a couple due to me not being on BC and can easily get pregnant (let's be honest we all know condoms break). I guess I am asking for opinions would you risk it and swap or would you only have sex with females (I am bi) or would you soft swap (everything but sex)?
For us age isnt an issue every situation and couple is different, If we feel something with another couple then we go for it no matter the age difference, My husband is 7 years older than I but still here we are. Its all in the chemistry for us