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Thanks for the link. We had a look. Closest group is a two hour drive. But we are not hard-core into that lifestyle. Its just one of the elements we incorporate into our sexual activity sometimes. Thanks anyway. I wonder if the woman is supposed to do some kind of rotational movement to make it a proper spit-roast? Have to look into that one.

Thank you all for your responces. Sorry about that 'spit-roast' thing. Thought that was in common use. And yes it does refer to a woman getting it doggy while giving a BJ. Its nice to see there are so many open minded people out there. Thanks again.

Here is the situation. Our primary interest is not in swapping partners but in both couples playing together. Including bi play. No experience but that is what this is all about for us. We also practice pegging, i.e. female-to-male strap-on play. We also do light bondage but that is not a requirement. (Blindfolds are awesome) If we want to get laid we have each other. We need to hook up with another couple to try DP's, spit-roasts and other various and assorted group activities. Things we can't do as a couple. We have that covered. So I guess our question is that is this type of swinging very common or do we stand a snowball's chance in hell of hooking up? No clubs where we live. Thanks in advance for any responses and thanks for this excellent site.

Thank you from a pair of wet behind the ears newbies for this most excellent thread. Pretty much reaffirmed our attitude but we still found this very helpful. You folks are very cool to take the time to be mentors.