Get wife into BBC

[Dan523 0]

want to be cuckolded by wife and a black man, any tips or suggestions, hampshire based

[MidwestHoneys 284]

Oh you must be the husband of the woman who just posted she wants her husband sodomized by the same black guy. It’s a shame nobody wants us purple guys. 

[GoldCoCouple 3,924]

Step 1: Tell HER.

Step 2: See what she says and does.

[ExploringOptions 151]

I never understand this. What does she want? Can you explain the race part?

[couplers 3,622]

Has your wife spoken to you about any fantasies?

 

It's my understanding that a cuckold is a man who doesn't know that his wife is cheating on him.  So perhaps your fantasy is already being fulfilled.  Examine closely next time your wife comes home with a smile on her face, and explain to her why you're down there preparing to lick her good. 

[AdamGunn2 103]

I believe that 'cuckold' has two distinct definitions:

 

1) A man whose wife is cheating on him (whether he knows about it or not. See Ken Follet's The Pillars of the Earth for a wonderful example.) This is an older conception.

2) A man whose wife has extramarital sexual encounters and humiliates him in the process. This can be done during the act (if the husband is watching), before (making him wear a cock cage, for example,) or after (making him eat her while she has the cum of another man, for example.) 

 

The idea that all men whose wives have sex with others are cuckolds is a misnomer, in my opinion. By this logic the man in any couple who has a foursome is a cuckold. Also there is the stag/vixen dynamic where a man allows his wife to have sex with others (while he may or may not be present,) and both are content with the situation.

 

[Numex 1,911]

3 hours ago, AdamGunn2 said:

where a man allows his wife to have sex with others ---- and both are content with the situation.

That's a Wittol, what all of us men in the lifestyle are.  Cuckolds are men being cheated upon without his knowledge. 

[TnA83 228]

8 hours ago, AdamGunn2 said:

 

2) A man whose wife has extramarital sexual encounters and humiliates him in the process. This can be done during the act (if the husband is watching), before (making him wear a cock cage, for example,) or after (making him eat her while she has the cum of another man, for example.) 

 

 

 

That's the definition of cuckold in my opinion.  I realize that in times past it has meant a non monogamous woman's husband in any situation.  I think of it as a man that is shamed by his wife's infidelity but still enjoys it, or can't do anything about it.

[couplers 3,622]

12 hours ago, TnA83 said:

a man that is shamed by his wife's infidelity but still enjoys it

Women too?  I don't feel shamed when my men have sex with another woman, but I do feel the sting of jealousy and inadequate.  I do, however, enjoy those feelings.

 

Perhaps because it is common throughout history for husbands to cheat on their wives (or have more than one wife, consort, concubine), women are expected to accept it without feelings. 

[TnA83 228]

7 hours ago, couplers said:

Women too?  I don't feel shamed when my men have sex with another woman, but I do feel the sting of jealousy and inadequate.  I do, however, enjoy those feelings.

 

Perhaps because it is common throughout history for husbands to cheat on their wives (or have more than one wife, consort, concubine), women are expected to accept it without feelings. 

What's good for the gander is good for the goose, I guess.

[couplers 3,622]

17 hours ago, TnA83 said:

What's good for the gander is good for the goose, I guess.

Greatly agreed! Goodness for the gander grants grace for the goose, giving both gallant gestures grounds for gratitude.