Mature Newbies

[MikeRita 3]

We are 54/55 and this will be our first trip to the wild side. Is it odd for folks our age to be just starting out?

 

i(husband) really want to see her enjoy herself. She is obviously happy with that. 
 

She would like to experience bbc. Assume this can happen at any club or theme night?

 

we are older. Are condoms a must?

 

we will have a ton more questions I’m sure. 
 

we are looking forward to this stage of our life

[AdamGunn2 187]

You are at a perfect age to enter the sport, we all welcome you. Experiences such as BBC can happen at a club, a house party, through a swinger's site, and other ways. The possibilities are virtually endless.

 

You question the need for condoms. Is the lady post-menopausal? If not, there is pregnancy to think about. But the other aspect is STDs, some of the risk can be tempered by the use of condoms, others not so much. Educate yourself on the risks (we're here to help,) and make the choice that is right for you.

 

Keep asking your questions, we'll be happy to help you!

[Billygoat 405]

Welcome poolside….com’on in…..the water is fine

 

[MikeRita 3]

Adam and Billy thank you!

 

we have been invited to a couple house parties not sure if going that route for first exp or club. Rita is excited to go. 
 

Not post menopausal yet. Her side of family have had children in their 50s. Hates latex and has never used them. We have been married 27+ years. 
 

 

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,086]

Welcome!

 

We're about your age and also enjoy play with BBC. My wife has a fave that we met at a club, but if you're into BBC its usually not too hard to make contact on a lifestyle website.

 

We use condoms if we go to clubs or parties but play bare at home. We never liked condoms and every time I wear one I'm reminded of why I dislike them.

 

Instead of condoms we just ask for (and provide) a relatively recent std panel - which can be had at your Dr or using a third party service like stdtest.com and it's pretty simple. 

[MikeRita 3]

Rita has noticed more and more latley(who knows how long it’s been going on) blacks flirting more and more direct. It’s been turning her on. Watching IR porn. She has never had it in the past. Roaring to go. House party is this weekend so she is very eager

[AdamGunn2 187]

If you are interested, go ahead and attend a party. At the very least, you'll be exposed to what the Lifestyle really is, not the stuff you've read about, and not the fantasies in your head (either bad or good.)

 

I do suggest that before you go, have a good talk between yourselves. Decide how far you want to go that first night, then make sure you don't go any further than that. You can always take another step your second time, but you can't make a mistake just go away. Watch your alcohol consumption, too much booze is not good for following rules.

 

Also, there are various birth control options that don't require condoms, talk to a doctor or do on-line research.

Edited July 24, 2023 by AdamGunn2

[MikeRita 3]

It’s funny we’ve had the talk. We don’t know how far to go but as long as she is comfortable we play. She really wants to go. Two people from her school(work) will be there. Seems to have sparked the interest. 
 

not much drinking so it does t become a factor. 

[njbm 2,728]

We started at a similar age. Have fun!

[MikeRita 3]

Just now, njbm said:

We started at a similar age. Have fun!

Thank you we hope too. Rita blows you a kiss. 

[MikeRita 3]

9 minutes ago, njbm said:

We started at a similar age. Have fun!

We are in SNJ message us

[NC_Seniors 492]

2 hours ago, MikeRita said:

We are 54/55 and this will be our first trip to the wild side. Is it odd for folks our age to be just starting out?

 

We started ten later than you did … which doesn’t mean it’s not odd, but it’s not unheard of!   ;-D

[njbm 2,728]

3 hours ago, MikeRita said:

We are in SNJ message us

SLS? Unfamiliar with SNJ.

[MikeRita 3]

8 hours ago, njbm said:

SLS? Unfamiliar with SNJ.

Southern NJ

[MikeRita 3]

We are going to the party this weekend. Wil be our first experience. 

[MikeRita 3]

Her coworkers are excited. 

[GoldCoCouple 4,014]

Your rules are whatever you decide what your rules are. While we recommend condoms when swinging with new people, you can either insist on them or not. Set your rules and don't ever violate them. They can always be changed, but only after you and your partner talk about them outside of a sexual situation. Just make sure that whoever you are playing with also know what your rules and limits are.

 

As for attending a party with people you (or she) know from work...that will probably lead to some interesting conversations in the office. Both Ms. Gold and myself, however, have morals clauses that would prevent that from happening until we ran across someone from work AT the event (in which case, we are all in violation of the morals clause so it's okay...ish). Be sure to report back with how things went and we hope you have a great time!

[MikeRita 3]

Interesting conversations have started already 

[couplers 4,140]

On 7/24/2023 at 2:22 PM, MikeRita said:

She would like to experience bbc.

As I like to do, I am turning the question around - Has anyone here had a desire to experience black pussy?

 

It wasn't a specific desire of ours, but in our early days I set Lora (who's back) to play with hubby.  It was great, both for him and later the lezzie experience with me.  She later brought along her bf/fiancé/husband/ex-husband Walter (also black) to play with us as well.  In short, our interaction with Lora was much better in every way compared to Walter.

 

Lora and Walter split and she joined our family, although each of us women played with him a couple of times individually when we were in California. 

[AdamGunn2 187]

At one point I was mildly curious about having an African-American woman. One night at our club we bumped into a mature couple (we were also mature,) which had such a lady and her Caucasian husband. After the usual mating rituals (dancing, discussion, more dancing) we headed into a room with them. They were fun, I'm glad I had the experience, but it wasn't earth-shaking or anything.

[NoAngels 303]

1 hour ago, couplers said:

As I like to do, I am turning the question around - Has anyone here had a desire to experience black pussy?

I won’t call it a desire, I have had an ongoing relationship with a woman of color for years. She was not an attraction because of color, more that she is a wonderful person that enjoys fun and laughs even though she knew I was married when we met. She is also a beautiful person physically, thin, small breasts and perfect butt. 
I don’t mention a peculiar difference, she gets white foamy when we play, something she says is just her lubrication. 

[let's do it again 379]

3 hours ago, couplers said:

As I like to do, I am turning the question around - Has anyone here had a desire to experience black pussy?

 

It wasn't a specific desire of ours, but in our early days I set Lora (who's back) to play with hubby.  It was great, both for him and later the lezzie experience with me.  She later brought along her bf/fiancé/husband/ex-husband Walter (also black) to play with us as well.  In short, our interaction with Lora was much better in every way compared to Walter.

 

Lora and Walter split and she joined our family, although each of us women played with him a couple of times individually when we were in California. 

It is more about personality than race or looks to me. I don't like to play with women that has a lot of hangups and can be as filthy as I. Being in the rural midwest, I don't encounter many races outside of caucasians. But I really care about personality, never had a race fetish.

[couplers 4,140]

18 hours ago, let's do it again said:

 never had a race fetish.

Neither do I, but there are differences to appreciate, savor.

 

Two things for me are Lora's hair and the contrast between her dark skin and the pink between her legs. 

[PeterJ 826]

2 hours ago, couplers said:

… the contrast between her dark skin and the pink between her legs. 

The first time I had sex with a Black woman I was struck in a nice way by that same contrast. With subsequent Black partners it was just like any other partner, a gorgeous lickable & fuckable pussy that was hopefully part of a woman I could feel connected with, at least in the moment.

[let's do it again 379]

3 hours ago, couplers said:

Neither do I, but there are differences to appreciate, savor.

 

Two things for me are Lora's hair and the contrast between her dark skin and the pink between her legs. 

For me, skin color or hair doesn't compare to attitude and personality. Nothing better than a woman that wants to fuck me as bad as I want her!