Windy20 20 Posted March 13, 2023 Anyone have a clue on this? We aren't looking to swap pretty sure we don't fit the criteria of soft kinda up to whomever your dealing with. But we are looking to go out flirt laugh and maybe go back to the house and watch another couple have sex or vice versa but....how do you search that?? 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
NWAtlSwing 487 Posted March 13, 2023 can easily do that at a club 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
enhancer 1,542 Posted March 13, 2023 I see people on swinger sites looking for exactly the same thing you are looking for all the time! Not something we look for at all, but they are out there. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Windy20 20 Posted March 13, 2023 30 minutes ago, NWAtlSwing said: can easily do that at . We've been to a club multiple times. Nothing as of yet 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Windy20 20 Posted March 13, 2023 9 minutes ago, enhancer said: I see people on swinger sites looking for exactly the same thing you are looking for all the time! Not something we look for at all, but they are out there. Thanks. Just making sure we are on the right path Quote Share this post Link to post
NWAtlSwing 487 Posted March 13, 2023 Places like Trapeeze have open rooms where people can play and I assure you on a Saturday night, there will be other couples playing. Maybe I am not understanding what you want? Quote Share this post Link to post
Windy20 20 Posted March 14, 2023 Yep we've been to the lux they have rooms for such things. Some things are better left to a personal level rather then a big crowd or a big crowd behind closed doors. We are looking for a place that we can search for a couple go out for drinks and establish an actual friendship that has its intentions to see each other naked eventually or planned ect. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post
NC_Seniors 492 Posted March 14, 2023 If you’re looking to have a same room experience with just one other couple, it’s not likely to happen at a club … most couples there are looking for either a true swap experience or to just have their own fun. You should open a membership at a site such as SLS, SDC, or Kasidie. (I’m sure there must be others, but those are the ones I’ve heard of.) I don’t know about the latter two, but SLS allows you to search for couples within X miles of a specific geographic location and it indicates every member’s level of interest in Full, Soft, and Watch. You might have better luck going that route. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
Windy20 20 Posted March 14, 2023 3 minutes ago, NC_Seniors said: If you’re looking to have a same room experience with just one other couple, it’s not likely to happen at a club … most couples there are looking for either a true swap experience or to just have their own fun. You should open a membership at a site such as SLS, SDC, or Kasidie. (I’m sure there must be others, but those are the ones I’ve heard of.) I don’t know about the latter two, but SLS allows you to search for couples within X miles of a specific geographic location and it indicates every member’s level of interest in Full, Soft, and Watch. You might have better luck going that route. On all of those sites.. guessing all in due time Quote Share this post Link to post
NC_Seniors 492 Posted March 14, 2023 47 minutes ago, Windy20 said: On all of those sites.. guessing all in due time Free or paid? Most won’t take you seriously if it’s the former … 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Windy20 20 Posted March 14, 2023 51 minutes ago, NC_Seniors said: Free or paid? Most won’t take you seriously if it’s the former … All are paid 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
TeamCalgary 161 Posted March 17, 2023 This is called a parallel and is a starting point for some couples and a kink for others. You should not have any trouble finding another couple to engage in this with you; just be very clear about exactly what you are looking for and that there will be no intersecting/trading of partners, hence the name. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Sarabeth28 16 Posted December 25, 2023 Clubs you can have the same room. If you host or if you are going to someone's house make it clear what your boundaries are. My fiance and I don't have too many rules but one is same room always. No expectations. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Apair2share 2 Posted February 7 We are looking to start in the very same way, connect with like minded people just like vanilla dating (crawl, walk, run, fly). We’ve watched and read TONS of advice and this seems to be the best approach. We live in Connecticut & it’s like trying to find a blizzard in Florida. It took us all half a lifetime to find our spouses & this will take time too. Good luck and don’t give up! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
njbm 2,728 Posted February 8 We are experienced swingers. We usually soft or full swap. But if a newbie couple wanted to watch and be watched, we would do it. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Windy20 20 Posted February 8 1 hour ago, njbm said: We are experienced swingers. We usually soft or full swap. But if a newbie couple wanted to watch and be watched, we would do it. Where are you two located? Quote Share this post Link to post