Anyone have insight on Paris swinger clubs?

[davidh304 39]

We will be in Paris March 17th & 18th and wanted to try to clubs.  We've checked out the websites and had heard about the strict dress code.  Anyone have any recommendations or advice?  We were looking at Le Mask and Les Chandelles.  It might be an ego bruise if we don't make it through the door but we will match the dress code.  If we don't get in we will just uber to an alternate.

 

We are on sdc under slycat8

 

The Mrs. is down 48 pounds from our pictures and I'm down about 30.  She is 207 lbs at 5'8 and looks youthful for her age.  I'm 194 lbs..  We plan on wearing a tailored suit for me and getting the Mrs. a nice high end dress.

 

She has trouble wearing heels all night due to an injury, so we might try to being in a classy but more comfortable pair of shoes for her to change into once we are inside if that's an option.  Once the clothes start coming off I'm hoping it won't be a problem.

 

We're new but have been to Desire RM, Secrets, and Caliente.  So interested in seeing how things are in Europe.

 

Anyone that's been there think we would have problems getting in or have any advice?

 

Thank you!

[EastInWest 1,508]

My knowledge is dated, pre-pandemic. We didn't go, but Le Masque was the one we were eyeballing. Les Chandelles had a reputation for an older crowd with fewer non-French. It's supposedly more like a dinner club where wealthy Parisians go to fuck, or was.

 

A fun thing we have tried in Paris was Natur&Zen nude erotic massage. The women were beautiful, professional, and we were both amazingly turned on by the experience.

[davidh304 39]

Thank you for the information!  We will definitely look at Le Mask.

[davidh304 39]

Replying to this for other people's information.

 

We went out Friday & Saturday night to Le Mask and Taken.  We will start with our Saturday night review.  For both nights my wife did a last minute dress change to a blue dress that is long sleeved, does very nice on the cleavage, and has a long skirt.  It has flowers.  It stood out a little bit, and was a little different but it makes the Mrs. look great.  We had been informed about the strict dress codes and heel requirements at some of the Parisian clubs.  The Mr. was wearing a well fitted blue suit and also looked sharp.  The Mr. is also writing this, but objectively, I did look good.   The Mrs. wore heels that weren't stiletto's but wider.  She also brought a pair of flats in her purse in case the heels became a problem.  Figuring since clothes are coming off that a shoe change wasn't going to be that much of a problem once you are in.

 

Our French consists of none and fluent as a kid with almost zero use.  I could get by very well at times and often use a poor vocabulary but get the point across in just fine in french.  With Google translate as the back up there were no problems.  We didn't meet a single rude Parisian on our trip, and usually there English was better than our French.

 

 

We went to Taken on Saturday night.  We can't give this place a proper review nor a serious one.  Not because it's bad, but because of our mistake.  We arrived at about 1100-1130 pm.  It's a great location and if you are going there we strongly recommend hitting the St. Regis restaurant.  The food is great and the French Onion soup is out of this world.  Good light fare and a block away from Taken.  Taken is on a small street and we didn't drive there so can't comment on parking.  Outside the door there was a security guard that directed us to ring the door bell.  The door looked like a metal 17th century castle door.  Like an old speakeasy a slider the size of a 3x5 opened up.

 

This was our initial assessment apparently.  The slider slid shut and the door opened and an employee in her 50s or 60s opened the door enough to take a look at us.  It was an up and down look.  The woman 100% looked at my wife's shoes to make sure she had heels on.  It was funny.  We got the "ok" and were let in.  Although the woman wasn't rude there was no doubt she was a harsh judge and ran that place like clockwork. We both looked good and young for our ages (mid 40s) but aren't in great shape but aren't ugly either.  So we looked good and dressed good.  The french seem to stay up late, in fact most clubs we saw were open till 4 or 5am.  Maybe the bar becomes higher later in the night but in we go.

 

There is a coat check upstairs for purses, coats, and phones.  The upstairs area is very chic.  You walk downstairs and you are in the main portion of the club.  There are stone walls, red carpet, a nice bar with led lighting that is just right.  You can tell they put a lot of effort into the atmosphere.  A drink or two was included with admission and you pay as you exit.  We ordered a few drinks.  The club consists of a glass smoking room, which we liked as we didn't have to smell the smoke.  A small dance floor, chairs and tables, and a side area that had some more chairs and tables.  The bathroom was a once person affair.  We returned to the bar and sipped our drinks.  There was a candy bar in the bar area.  The bar tenders were friendly but between the music and language barrier it was a little tough to communicate.  But the bar tenders were prompt and friendly for sure.

 

The crowd was light but it is a fairly small club.  As the night progressed we made a couple of notes:

 

- The club became crowded to the point where you couldn't always find a seat.  It's not the end of the world but it did feel like there were too many people for the space.  It was actually tough to even walk around to see if there was a place to sit.  It got to the point there wasn't even standing room.  It's not the end of the world but if I could potentially have a hard on I don't want to have to brush up against guys just to move around the space.  Your mileage may vary.  The age seemed like a good distribution between mid 20's on up to 60's.  The women trended a little lower than the male age it seemed on average.  Most women were wearing black dresses, one of two were in lingerie with stockings, and the men were all well dressed.  The vibe wasn't very friendly but there was nothing rude or wrong about it.  It just felt like there was a lot of people standing around trying to look too cool for the room.  Not a big deal but for example trying to move past people and giving them an "excusez moi s'il vous plat," didn't always work.  Once I ask nicely, you hear me and ignore more, I'm going through and if you brush up against me, buddy that's your problem. 

 

I felt like we were missing part of the club, like there had to be some sort of area with beds or a dungeon or something.  SO, there was a hallway off the dance floor that we missed.  Well, we saw it but it looked like an employee area with a staff member in the suit guarding the entrance.  We didn't see anyone go in or out of it and didn't try to check it out.  So we missed any play areas and can not in good faith make this a serious or accurate review.  By the same token if you've never been there and not obvious that an area is open to you as a patron, it's a little bit of the club's fault too.  There were no signage and the area looked closed off.  I should mention the staff here has a very no nonsense attitude.  We felt like asking what was in the hallway wouldn't have been appreciated.

 

The vibe just wasn't working for us.  We ended up conversing with each other and then calling it a night.  The space is very well done and I'm sure the vibe changes with the attendee's.  We walked upstairs with our drinks, which apparently is forbidden and got yelled at in French by the door lady.  We didn't understand but eventually figured it out.  No harm, no foul.  As we were leaving the club was getting quite crowded and there was a line at the coat check.  We saw the door lady eye balling people up and down.  You did not get in unless you were following the dress code.  We saw the door lady life a portion of a young lady's dress to look at the belt she was wearing.  I suspect as the place gets crowded the dress code becomes even more unforgiving.  Still feeling like we had to be missing something I checked out the upstairs and did walk into an employees only area.  Hey when in Paris, do as the Romans!  The cost was about 130 Euro's with a drink or two included.

 

The drinks were good, the DJ music was good, the space was top notch.  We would go back but I want to at least see the entire layout.

 

 

 

 

 

[davidh304 39]

In reverse chronological order, on Friday night we tried Le Mask and can not say enough good things about this place.  The club did a check out of us at the door but it seemed less hardcore.  Men wear a button down and probably a tie, women nice dress and don't forget your heels.  The club has two levels and it was a 1920's theme night.  We didn't see that listed anywhere we could find but the employees were dressed to period.  Once we entered we were greeted by Lucielle or Lucy (sorry didn't quite catch the name).  Lucy did a great job of making us instantly feel welcomed and at home, in fact all the employees were outstanding.  They seemed genuinely like they were having an enjoyable time interacting with the guests.  The club has two levels and we were given a run down of how it works and again you pay as you leave and get a few drinks included with your entry fee. 

 

The front door opens into a bar that is just amazing to look at, Le Mask has a great wooden bar, lighting on the bottles that is sharp, and the bartenders were dressed in black with red suspenders.  I'm not sure if that was for the theme or every night, but they were excellent!  Again, their English was better than our French and they quickly switched once they figured that out.  We arrived at 1030pm-1100pm on a Friday night.  Lucy told us that there were two shows that night but we didn't ask what they were because we were still gawking at the front bar.  We got a few drinks and can't say enough about the bar staff.

 

We did a walk around.  On the ground floor with the bar and the door there is a lounge area with seating and couches.  The club was populated but sparse at first.  We liked this because we could check out the premises without interrupting anyone too much.  The bathroom at Le Mask has a stand up shower in it, which is a pretty cool option.  I didn't enter it, but the Mrs. did and said the glass blocks allowed a view from the lounge.  I'm not sure if it was an obscured view or clear but hey, enjoy the show!

 

There is a divided smoking room upstairs and a candy bar near the main bar.  What are the colored candy things?  Is it a marsh mellow, is it a skittle, who knows just put it in your mouth.  Yup, we were digging this atmosphere. 

 

We went down a velvet lined stairway which has sparkly stones in it to the lower level.  There's handrails, you do the mental calculus on your balance, blood alcohol level, and the low ceiling there and take your chances!  Very chic, with led lighting.  Downstairs leads to a dance floor with seating along the edges, a side room with bench seating, and bed like areas divided by a curtain or perhaps a wall.  Of the dance floor there was a second lounge room and a back room with two good sized beds.  Having seen the layout we went back up stairs for our second drink.  After getting our drinks we decided to head back downstairs.  It was perhaps 1200-1230am at this time and the club was getting busier.

 

The age range at this was middle aged, but there were younger people there, they seemed to be showing up as it got later.  The main lounge was a little to open to the front door and bar area for us.  It's hard to explain as you have to walk through a curtain and doorway but the room itself was good sized.  To be clear when the door to the establishment is open there is no way to see the lounge but it is one of the things you would probably check out first.  We wanted something a little more private.

 

Everyone was well dressed and the vibe was classy and friendly.  People smiled and were considerate, we felt very at ease here.  There was a little apprehension from the Mrs. as she has never been to a European club and didn't know what to expect.  I explained to her that it's more of an implied consent culture.  If someone likes your they may put their hand on against your leg or touch your arm.  If you don't want them to then indicate you are not interested and you won't have any problems.

 

We went downstairs again through the awesome crystal LED staircase.  It's a little off balance and coming up it there's a blue LED light that gets you right in the face.  Totally cool stairway.  As we walked around the lower level there were people naked in the back room using the beds.  We wouldn't have felt awkward using the beds next to them or asking to use the beds with them.  We did opt however to go to one of the side rooms with beds that was unoccupied.  If you metric is naked people with each other, you will find it at Le Mask.

 

At this point we were both pretty turned on and the Mrs. used an ideally placed velvet bench for a chance to showcase her excellent oral skills on me.  While we were both dressed.  Game on!  We might be American but I am all European when it comes to a more casual attitude about sex.  As we were engaged a middle aged French couple entered the room.  I'm not sure if the woman was in lingerie or stripped down but the man was in his dress clothes.  I was pretty focused on what was going on to me and only got a few glances.  The French lady was wearing black under wear with stockings and something slinky and revealing up top.  She was talking to her husband for a few minutes.  The next time I checked it seemed like she might have been giving him a lap dance or was straddling him, not too sure.

 

Prior to the Mrs. I had never received good oral work by anyone.  Maybe it was the luck of the draw but from unenthusiastic to teeth in a bad way receiving a blowjob wasn't an important thing to me.  Well, let me tell that changed when I met my wife.  And at Le Mask oral was done to completion for the first time, something I had never been able to achieve, that was because of me the Mrs. is outstanding in her skills and enthusiasm.

 

Right off the back there's a series of fantasies and wins.  Although we have been to several lifestyle club and resorts we had dipped our toes in the water but remained relatively tame.  I also always had an issue that I was conflicted about:  when at a club as a man, do you cum or not?  It seems more sanitary to control yourself, also the more fresh towels provided the more I feel like it's appropriate.  I mean this place was so well decorated, and such a cool spot that I kinda felt bad making a mess.

 

At Caliente, when there play rooms at Club Rouge were open the staff was in every fifteen minutes changing sheets and towels were everywhere.  At Desire RM, there were towels provided but they weren't especially big and there were no sheets on the bed, which leads me to a no jizz conclusion.  But hey, call me old fashioned.

 

The Mrs. took care of the problem.  Now at this point we were dressed mostly and we were turned on and got rid of some of my suit to get me more naked.  If I had to do it again I would wear an undershirt that wasn't plain white, it kinda made me feel goofy looking, even though other guys had the same thing.  I worse boxer briefs and boxers.  They both come off quick and if something happens you have a backup for the uber ride home!  I took the Mrs. on to the bed and lifted her skirt up and we started having very hot sex in front of a very nice couple.  The Mrs. turned the tables and got on top of me.  At this point I know the other couple has looked and heard what we were doing with a front row seat.  I like to think we turned them on enough that they started getting busy because of us,  The couple slid onto the bed but were next to us.  Not in our personal space but next to it.  I made sure to pull the Mrs. skirt up so her absolutely beautiful porcelain skin and ass were on full display while riding me.  Normally I need 10-20 minutes maybe a few more before being ready to go but I was so turned on, after orgasm one I was still rock hard.  The Mrs. really liked this and was on top facing me.  My suit was in a pile on the floor and the Mrs. didn't even have time to take her dress off.

 

I made sure the skirt was pulled up so the couple and the few other people checking out that room of the club got a good view because she is super hot!  I pulled the Mrs.'s dress down so her tits were out and this is fantasy level stuff for me.  It probably a slow Tuesday for most lifestyle people but hey, we're new.

 

While my wife was riding me the French lady placed some hands on my wife.  This was well received with them feeling each other's breasts and they were all spectacular.  After the initial touching the Mrs. turned back to me.  Well, I'm one to improve international relations and fit in with the culture.  So I took my wife's hand and placed them on the breasts of this welcoming Parisian.  The woman went to touch my wife but didn't want to be to forward.  Well, decorum out the window I told the woman "oui, oui!"  Touch away!  I know if my wife didn't want to be touched she would certainly express it.  After some fondling, kissing, and making out the woman went back to her husband as to not leave him out in the cold.  After I had orgasm number two I was pretty tapped out.  I didn't want to push my wife into anything she wasn't comfortable with and decided to take the win.  This was the first time we had another person touch us during sex and I would rather move too slow than too fast.

 

I totally loved that the interaction was natural.  A touch, you don't have to speak, you can just go with it!  Now keep in mind, it was the woman approaching another woman.  The male did not attempt to touch my wife and I found that very respectful and courteous.  Not that it would have been a problem if he had.  But I liked how people are a little more forward in Europe.  After we finished we re-dressed and went upstairs.  I needed some water and the Mrs. was up for one last drink.

 

We were told by Lucy the show was starting in the upstairs lounge.  I'm not sure if it was someone dancing on a pole or a burlesque type thing.  We didn't get a chance to see the show but the lounge was full.  Looking for somewhere to sit we went to the smoking room.  We don't smoke but it just seemed like a good spot drink some water and regain my senses.  The couple from downstairs was dressed and enjoying a cigarette.  The Mrs. had one with them out of courtesy but the language barrier stopped the conversation from going further.

 

I have to give a special shout out to the DJ at Le Mask.  He was an Asian gentlemen that played awesome music!  He had a small set up, as in he didn't have a lot of space to work with.  As with all the employees at Le Mask, he looked genuinely happy to be there, and was very outgoing and friendly.  The employees set the mood so well.  Walking in you feel like you've meet long lost friends.   The put effort into making you feel welcome and it pays off!

 

We settled up our bill and caught an uber back to the hotel.  The bill was cheaper than Taken but I think we had an extra drink or two at Le Mask.  I want to say $120 U.S.D.'s and about $130 U.S.D. at Taken.  We felt the value for our money was high.

 

A few things of note:

 

We appreciated the dress code.  A lot of negative online reviews are likely from people that were turned away from not following it.  Having gone to Secrets and Caliente, sometimes you want something that's more high end than a guy wearing no pants and a T-shirt that says "I shaved my balls for this."

 

The age range was typical for the lifestyle mostly middle aged with some older and some younger.

 

I emailed Les Chandelles, Le Mask, and Taken asking a few questions.  Les Chandelles took about 5-6 days to respond, Le Mask responded the same night, and Taken responded at about the 4 day mark.

 

I used SDC as my main research and the clubs own websites.  The SDC photos didn't do justice to either club, both clubs looked way better.

 

We made sure to go on nights where there were no single men.

 

I would highly recommend Le Mask, and also recommend Taken.  If I had to choose one objectively and independent of any sex acts, Le' Mask easily wins.  But remember we did not get to see the play rooms at Taken.

 

If I was going to Le Mask I would ask about theme nights, and what shows they may have as we didn't see that on their website.

 

Totally different vibe from the U.S. clubs we've attended, and we liked it a lot.

 

Any questions feel free to post or private message!

 

 

 

 

 

 

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