Our New First Camping Party

[PJ&Lin 181]

Quick background that was posted on our intro. In our 30s, our sex life was tamed down when we married, no 3somes after the I Do. 
Lin met a guy at a dispensary where the spoke about the purchases they were making and invited her back to his place to try some together. When she said no because she was happily married he he invited me to join him and his wife. We went and had a nonsexual high time. By the time the night was over he invited us to join friends for a camping trip. We later learned sex might be happening amongst the friends. 
Linda and I decided what the heck why are we becoming our parents, let’s have fun. 
Before the camping we were told one of the women was most likely not going to be sexual while the other was extremely sexual and very wild. 
Our first play was Linda and the wild one under the stars. I figured nothing could top what I watched and then it got better. 

[zonaboy801 32]

Sounds like a great first experience. How did it get better?

[couplers 4,140]

10 hours ago, PJ&Lin said:

our sex life was tamed down when we married, no 3somes after the I Do.

Please give us the backstory. MFM?  FFM?

[PJ&Lin 181]

1 hour ago, couplers said:

Please give us the backstory. MFM?  FFM?

Before we married? Think I posted that on our Intro. When we were dating. I should know people don’t read everything. 

[PJ&Lin 181]

11 hours ago, zonaboy801 said:

Sounds like a great first experience. How did it get better?

Our camping was almost spiritual, enlightening bringing back to days we left behind. Everyone was new to us, even the ones who invited us we just met. We went with a very open mind with only our imagination letting us to what we might expect. Free spirited was a phrase used when told about one of the friends, quiet about the other. We found out free spirited was an understatement when we met, 1960s came to mind. Was that my parents when they met? 
Our day of hiking was tiring, we hadn’t hiked or camped in some time, it was also time to get to everyone. We felt as outsiders at first leading to a feeling that we were accepted. The free spirited friend took a liking to Lin at one point stopping, saying I Like You and giving Lin a very deep kiss. Lin looked at me and shrugged her shoulders, laughed and said I Like You Too. 
Campfire time started with some edibles and plenty of laughing, some eating, some wine and Lin and I telling our story. They told us they go camping a few times a year  mostly with tents and we learned the other woman doesn’t have sex only giving oral to the guys. I think she was afraid to get naked because of being overweight, Lin later agreed. 
Sex!!! Connie, made up name, the free spirit said it was time for initiation. Okay you two, get your shorts off! She made sure we knew she wasn’t kidding as she unbuttoned Lin’s shorts. She took out a vape and passed it around, took it back and she said now be prepared. Told Lin to lean back and spread in a nice affirmative way. She took a big draw on the vape and blew the vapor on Lin’s crotch and said Nice Pussy and gave her a kiss right there. This had us all laughing until she shhh’d us and pointed to me and said Big Guy let’s see your cock here, took a another draw on the vape, blew the vapor on me, grabbed my dick and kissed my balls. Everyone was hysterical, again she quieted us and went back to Lin. Lin looked to me to join but Connie said just shut up and be ready to enjoy a magic tongue. Of course much more laughing and I was finally brought into the fun. 

[cplnluv1 804]

I always try to make things fun and funny when meeting those who haven’t played before. There is an art to taking the pressure off a nervous woman who still thinks being with a woman is taboo. We have met so many women who think they want something but are afraid to go forward. 
With us it is more wine or vodka as the relaxer not pot. 
After breaking the ice with you how did the rest of the camping trip go? What happened to the 4th young lady? 

[findinganswers 356]

Such a great story. Going away, change of scenery and for you renewing old ways. Watching my wife with another woman who happened to be our friend was one of the biggest excitement for me. Your new circle sound like real party people who know what fun is. 
Personally have sex under the stars with a full moon with a fire pit blazing, crickets chirping, and I think owls hooting mixed with the sounds of sex felt so natural and exhilarating. 
 

[couplers 4,140]

On 9/13/2022 at 7:23 AM, PJ&Lin said:

Before we married? Think I posted that on our Intro. When we were dating. I should know people don’t read everything. 

Yeah, I missed it, but found it.  Thanks. 

[PJ&Lin 181]

2 hours ago, couplers said:

Yeah, I missed it, but found it.  Thanks. 

I was not an ideal guy to date, I met her and it was for sex. Great looking, I wasn’t looking for a relationship I couldn’t walk away from all the crazy sex she wanted. Look, I was young and bragged to my friend and asked if he wanted to fuck her and when I told her she wasn’t mad. If I knew at the time I it was going to become a relationship I don’t think I would have done that but I did. Most likely if that didn’t happen our new found fun wouldn’t happen. 

[cplnluv1 804]

2 hours ago, PJ&Lin said:

f I knew at the time I it was going to become a relationship I don’t think I would have done that but I did.

Why? Young women have desires too. Always the double standard, boys are heroes and girls are sluts. 

[couplers 4,140]

On 9/15/2022 at 8:08 AM, PJ&Lin said:

I wasn’t looking for a relationship I couldn’t walk away from all the crazy sex she wanted.

Sounds like the sex that you wanted as well.

On 9/15/2022 at 8:08 AM, PJ&Lin said:

If I knew at the time I it was going to become a relationship I don’t think I would have done that but I did.

There's nothing wrong with starting a relationship on a strictly sexual basis.  It may be one of the better ways. 

On 9/15/2022 at 8:08 AM, PJ&Lin said:

asked if he wanted to fuck her and when I told her she wasn’t mad... Most likely if that didn’t happen our new found fun wouldn’t happen. 

She played you perfectly.  Found a guy who indulges her desire for crazy sex, got you to marry her, and now letting her have a little extra fun.  You are both lucky.

[PJ&Lin 181]

On 9/18/2022 at 8:15 AM, couplers said:

She played you perfectly.  Found a guy who indulges her desire for crazy sex, got you to marry her, and now letting her have a little extra fun.  You are both lucky.

Wouldn’t call it being played. I found a woman who loved crazy sex, got to marry her, and now we are both having extra fun. Yes we are both lucky. 
We stopped crazy sex with others for a few years after marriage then started with very little hesitation. 

[couplers 4,140]

2 minutes ago, PJ&Lin said:

Wouldn’t call it being played.

I would.  And did.  🙂  She gave you everything you wanted, including a spouse.  She saw things that you didn't and made it work.

 

I don't know if my husband saw so far into the future, but he let me do things that has taken us to a wonderful place.  Including some crazy sex.

[Idahocouple6969 294]

On 9/18/2022 at 6:15 AM, couplers said:

 

There's nothing wrong with starting a relationship on a strictly sexual basis.  It may be one of the better ways. 

 

We had sex on the first date, moved in together a couple weeks later, married a few months later.....and a couple of weeks ago we celebrated 40 years of marriage. It took a number of years to realize we liked sex with other people, 

[PeterJ 826]

57 minutes ago, Idahocouple6969 said:

We had sex on the first date, moved in together a couple weeks later, married a few months later.....and a couple of weeks ago we celebrated 40 years of marriage. It took a number of years to realize we liked sex with other people, 

Good on ya! 😊 It may have taken you some years to arrive at a consensually non-monogamous relationship, but you got there.

 

I’m not among them, but some people don’t take long at all to enter into  CNM status. I’ve posted on other threads about once playing — now about ten or more years ago — playing with a couple who were in their mid-80s and had in the late 1940s hosted an orgy on their wedding night. 😊💕 (By the time I played with them their bodies might have been aged, but their hearts certainly weren’t.)

[couplers 4,140]

19 hours ago, Idahocouple6969 said:

We had sex on the first date, moved in together a couple weeks later, married a few months later....

 

18 hours ago, PeterJ said:

hosted an orgy on their wedding night.

Wonderful stories and lessons.

 

 

[PeterJ 826]

3 hours ago, couplers said:

22 hours ago,  PeterJ said: 

hosted an orgy on their wedding night.

 

Wonderful stories and lessons.

 

 

I’ve had sex with five women on their wedding nights. Only three of them were my wives. 😉

[ExploringOptions 179]

On 7/11/2023 at 11:58 AM, Idahocouple6969 said:

We had sex on the first date, moved in together a couple weeks later, married a few months later.....and a couple of weeks ago we celebrated 40 years of marriage. It took a number of years to realize we liked sex with other people, 

Love that and can see me saying this 35 years from now. I met my husband at a friends house and had sex that night. I also had sex the night with another guy I was dating. For months I had fun with a few guys then we fell in love lol. We didn’t rush getting married, got engaged first and planned a wedding. 
Wait until he reads this, I’ll have to swear he was the best and that’s why I married him. I can safely say once we got engaged he is the only one. Now we are looking to change that. 

[couplers 4,140]

8 hours ago, ExploringOptions said:

I met my husband at a friends house and had sex that night. I also had sex the night with another guy I was dating.

Similar for me.  My ex-fiancé and I broke up, I moved out, but we kept having sex. I started dating David, and after a few dates we had sex.

 

The first thing I did afterwards was go see my ex, talk with him about it, and we had sex.  A few more dates, David knew that I was still seeing my ex, figured out that we were still screwing, said that it was ok with him, and asked me to marry him.