In a full swap

[Tomy Nikki 55]

Just curious what others do

[TnA83 282]

I don't like the term "disturb" in this situation.  I would prefer "join them."

 

But then my play style is for all 4 (or 6 or 8) be interactive with each other.  

[njbm 2,735]

Me and my swing partner would exit to another room to let them have some privacy to get things done. Unless they invite us to stay and join in. 

[Tomy Nikki 55]

2 hours ago, TnA83 said:

I don't like the term "disturb" in this situation.  I would prefer "join them."

 

But then my play style is for all 4 (or 6 or 😎 be interactive with each other.  

I used the term disturb there deliberately as many would choose join them

but join them is a term where again its your will being full filled  again as without the other person is not given a choice as he or she can’t say No practically.

[couplers 4,217]

Depends on the situation, I try to be sensitive to the others needs and desires, but I'm a joiner by nature.  If I can be helpful, I pitch in.  It seems that us women are more like that compared to the guys, who need recovery time.

[EastInWest 1,509]

11 hours ago, TnA83 said:

I don't like the term "disturb" in this situation.  I would prefer "join them."

 

But then my play style is for all 4 (or 6 or 😎 be interactive with each other.  

Yeah, kind of presumptive and maybe revealing about OP's concerns in asking?

 

Once or twice Mrs. E has played "look but don't touch" when we pick up a third, but she communicates that clearly in advance. 

[NWAtlSwing 498]

Might get up and go pee and get a drink too