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I'm curious how to give someone a nice rosie red ass without bruising them? Are hands too heavy, should a paddle be used. 

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Wish I could help, but that is something mrscplnuswing is definitely not into.  Just like everything though, different strokes for different folks, so maybe someone more experienced in that type of play will chime in.

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Not heavy blows, you can use a paddle or the hands, just have contact with as much of the entire hand at one time as you can (kind of cup your hand so it matches the curve that you are spanking). If it is causing bruising, you are doing it wrong. Then it's just practice, practice, practice.

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On 5/23/2022 at 10:31 AM, GoldCoCouple said:

Then it's just practice, practice, practice

Exactly...Practice. Different skin reacts differently in terms of the 'redness' you'll see. We're not into spanking but I have witnessed a few occasions where the spanked turns bright red with barely a tap and others where barely any red shows after some significant impacts. 

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