Holiday Road Trip

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I never thought President’s Weekend to be a major holiday except for shopping and card ads on TV. This year the excitement has been building for a road trip to our friends again. Debbie has ordered a new sexy outfit off one of those websites. It’s cute even though I think it’s crazy, we are friends and they have seen us naked, very naked before. She is having so much fun preparing for the trip and has become so sexy talking about it. 
I know she is also nervous worried about being with a woman sexually. It’s strange to answer questions about what to do sexually. I laugh, sex is natural and just do what you think you would like her to do to you. She asked about not having me watch. Stupid me said whatever you want. I did say I watched her with him in every possible position and oral. I know watching her with a woman would be exciting for me and then I know deep down this should be about her. She is so unsure and I don’t want to make it any harder for her. 
I read swinging is for couples to enjoy together and many of the men have posted the main reason they swing is to show off their wife and to watch them with other men. I don’t think that is the case for us, it’s about fun and pleasure. If I take the fun and pleasure away from her would it be just for what I want? Swinging was very difficult for me and her. I don’t know how others felt the first time and I certainly don’t know how a woman playing with another woman would feel. Is there double guilt? I think I know Debbie wasn’t the least bit bicurious before swinging. This might sound perverted, how did the other women on here feel the first time with a woman? Any guilt involved or just didn’t think about it? I want to be sure Debbie is doing this with no pressure. 

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18 hours ago, BillyandDebbie said:

I don’t know how others felt the first time and I certainly don’t know how a woman playing with another woman would feel. Is there double guilt? I think I know Debbie wasn’t the least bit bicurious before swinging. This might sound perverted, how did the other women on here feel the first time with a woman? Any guilt involved or just didn’t think about it? I want to be sure Debbie is doing this with no pressure. 

It’s nice you are thinking about her feelings. I surely remember my first time with another girl, it was a threesome and it just happened. I didn’t over think it, it came naturally as a threesome could be. My friend and I shared a guy and what happened was just a progression of the act. 
My more recent swinging was to please my husband, he never saw two women together. I’m not sure if it was the right reason even if it did lead us to many fun times. That new first time wasn’t what we planned, not the Unicorn we searched for, we ended up with a couple, she was sweet, he wasn’t. My husband got to watch and as a bonus to him he had sex with a younger attractive woman. 
We have since been with others looking for what we looked for. I can tell the ones who are doing it for the husband, like I did. Over the years I’ve learned to ask the woman questions to make sure she isn’t being forced to do it. Many are doing it just for him, I hate that. Sounds hypocritical because that is why I did. 
You are having fun with friends you have already been naked with. You have seen the friend naked and had sex with her. You have watched your wife have sex with someone. The hardest part of swinging is behind you, that first time. You know she is nervous, she has asked you to not watch. My suggestion is for you and your friend go out for a drink and leave the ladies home alone. Let your wife be comfortable without the extra pressure of you watching. These friends will be there for more fun. If your wife can get by her first time with a woman and she enjoys it you will get to watch during future visits. I’m thinking you may get to watch right after you get back to their house with your friend. Let her enjoy her first and you will be rewarded. 

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To follow up on the post

Debbie was a queen for a day or as our friends joked Pillow Queen. It had to be explained to me too. 
In anticipation of our road trip Debbie went shopping on line for sex toys as a gift. We have a wand we use and figured our friends had one too so she wanted to bring something different. We even searched on here for recommendations. I found one the ladies should enjoy and found two similar ones for the clitoris and she bought both. 
Seems we always have bad weather on our trips but we made it. Friday night was family night, no play with the kids around. We saved our gifts for a better opportunity. Next day the kids went skiing early and gave us plenty of couple time. Horny me couldn’t wait. I brought up the topic of the women playing, me being a jerk saying Debbie has been talking about it all week. It’s great that we can laugh with friends about sex. 
Why was Debbie a pillow queen? I didn’t get to watch that first time thing. The ladies went to try out the toys ALONE. The joke was about how Debbie just laid back and enjoyed herself. That’s when I fully understood the reference. I did the right thing though. After the girls emerged from the bedroom I was more than eager to please our friend. 
Sunday I knew the kids, not that young kids were going out at night. I couldn’t wait. I finally got to see something but not totally. We also had our first Other Couple. 

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I was very self conscious and extremely nervous about being with a woman the first time.  I am with your wife, I do not like a male audience when I am with a woman.