MMF Threesome with spouse and much larger bull: Male and female perspective?

[kc081878 12]

We have role-played MMF threesome and even gang bang with dildo/sex machine. Watching my wife experience the various shapes and sizes up to a very large/girthy dildo is electric. Her facial expressions, body movements, her sounds of pleasure are different. It's quite surreal and intoxicating. 

 

Then... When I am inside her just after such a large dildo... Oh my sweet mercy! It feels so amazing. Not better, just a new incredible  feeling. She describes it as feeling pillowy. We then become ravenous for each other. The emotions are so powerful. She says she gets this intense desire to feel me and have an orgasm with me after being filled to her limits. She says it's like craving your favorite home cooked meal after eating out all week. I would say the feeling is certainly mutual. 

 

So what are your thoughts on this scenario in the lifestyle? The physical sensations, the emotions, how spouses respond to variety and then the feeling of being with their spouse/partner after. 

 

Gang bang question for the women... In the heat of the experience or say if you were blindfolded, can you tell when it's your husband inside you versus the others? Or is it all just a wonderful blur?

Edited May 15, 2021 by kc081878

[adamgunn 1,457]

My wife is adamant that the feel of a penis inside her, almost every penis (and she's sampled her share and somebody else's,) is that it feels like every other penis that's been there.  Yes, she's been in many, many threesomes, orgies and one gangbang. 

 

For her, the difference is in what's attached to the penis. The feel of the body, how it fits into hers, the rhythm they set, the way he kisses (or not), the scent, if he's serious or telling jokes or even singing along with what's on the stereo. It's the whole package that's important, not just that wee pound of flesh.

[TricianMike 733]

1 hour ago, adamgunn said:

My wife is adamant that the feel of a penis inside her, almost every penis (and she's sampled her share and somebody else's,) is that it feels like every other penis that's been there.  

I am going to agree 95% and the other 5% might be my imagination. Almost all of the huge cock posts are by men, they seem to have an infatuation with big cocks and maybe just acting out their fantasy by say that their wife wants one. 
Visually and foreplay may make a difference. I do notice a larger than average man, how many are that large in the population? With under 6” being average and 9” off the charts, how many bulls are out there?

On a nude beach I am attracted visually to fit men regardless of what is hanging. Do I take double takes? Yes, I think the same way men notice an attractive boob. Big boobs don’t make for better sex. 

[PeterJ 835]

2 hours ago, adamgunn said:

...singing along with what's on the stereo...

Is that a plus or a minus for her, Adam? ?☺️

[adamgunn 1,457]

1 hour ago, TricianMike said:

Visually and foreplay may make a difference.

I'll certainly give you that, Tricia. Mary certainly enjoys looking at her man of the moment as he gets undressed, either by her hand or his.  I should have included the visual arousal in my comment about what she enjoys about the variety.

[EastInWest 1,509]

17 hours ago, TricianMike said:

I am going to agree 95% and the other 5% might be my imagination. Almost all of the huge cock posts are by men, they seem to have an infatuation with big cocks and maybe just acting out their fantasy by say that their wife wants one. 
Visually and foreplay may make a difference. I do notice a larger than average man, how many are that large in the population? With under 6” being average and 9” off the charts, how many bulls are out there?

In all seriousness, I agree. I'm a solid 7.25", and have "hit bottom" in a number of women in certain positions.

 

I have a hard time imagining there's a bunch of women out there looking to deal with 8"+ other than for bragging rights - I did know one woman years ago who was very proud of herself for hiring a 10" male escort in Vegas, but not because it felt better.

 

I think Mrs. E's take is that the difference between most men is pretty subtle. If it's big enough to feel it throb before it shoots, it's big enough.

[TricianMike 733]

1 hour ago, EastInWest said:

In all seriousness, I agree. I'm a solid 7.25", and have "hit bottom" in a number of women in certain positions.

Happy you are solid, but too small for all the guys who want bigger ones. You are now in the 2% club. Being a Liberal I think you should be taxed for your wealth of cockiness. 

[EastInWest 1,509]

19 minutes ago, TricianMike said:

Happy you are solid, but too small for all the guys who want bigger ones. You are now in the 2% club. Being a Liberal I think you should be taxed for your wealth of cockiness. 

 

The top 2% of penises, or the 2% that are stuck between categories? I thought everything 5"-7" was considered average.

 

Now I'm trying to find a distribution graph. I'm sure weight fluctuations also make a huge difference and this year hasn't been great for anyone. Might be fairer to say I was 7.25" ten years ago with a completely flat stomach.

Edited May 16, 2021 by EastInWest

[adamgunn 1,457]

Here's your chart: 

https://www.sciencemag.org/news/2015/03/how-big-average-penis

 

Just for information, 13 cm is 5 1/8", 16 cm is a tad bit more than 6 1/2 inches.

BTW, most men measure themselves wrong. The correct measuring technique is in this article.

[TricianMike 733]

To add to sizes, the average length of a vaginal canal is 2.75-3.75 inches when not aroused or giving birth so if you are bottoming out , even very small men can hit bottom 

[EastInWest 1,509]

35 minutes ago, TricianMike said:

To add to sizes, the average length of a vaginal canal is 2.75-3.75 inches when not aroused or giving birth so if you are bottoming out , even very small men can hit bottom 

Yes, exactly. What I was getting at is that I've never met a woman who found that experience to be a winner, and I'm cautious in the "ankles over the shoulder" position for that reason. "Uncomfortably large" is smaller than some people think, and - if real - OP's wife's experience with the dildo might be very different from a real gigantic partner holding back for fear of leaving her bruised...or not holding back.

 

They do make donut/sleeve-type accessories for partners who need to avoid going too deep for fear of injury, and while it's a handy invention, I'm guessing most couples who do need one would choose not needing one over any additional size.

 

2 hours ago, adamgunn said:

Here's your chart: 

https://www.sciencemag.org/news/2015/03/how-big-average-penis

Huh.

 

I should have marketed this differently in my single days. I thought I might be one standard deviation off, not two.

Edited May 16, 2021 by EastInWest

[Sophy 551]

Big penises is a big fetish for me, I love to suck on a big penis head, penetration can be a little painful if the penis is too long, but with the right rhythm and position it can be managed, what really does for me is a average length penis with above average girth.

[NWAtlSwing 497]

Her: I am 5'1". There is only so much depth and bottoming out does not feel good at all. Hubbies cock is the right size to get in all the way and we are find. Also, if he were any bigger around, he would not get to go into my ass. Also, the whole push my legs back against my chest does not make me magically deeper, it just makes it hard for me to breath. Thicker cocks are easier to accommodate, as that sort of stretching can and does happen. If I want to feel really full, two cocks at once is the best way. Not that my body is always wanting that.

 

Him: After a gangbang, she usually get tighter, not looser.