First visit to swingers club in NYC

[njcouple7285 15]

Hi All,

 

Wife has agreed us to visit a swinger club in NYC, Pendulum- Curvy Fling night. She's redhead, BBW, 47yo.

 

Before 12 years we gave a try to lifestyle but it wasn't very enjoyable experience in fact - MFF, MMF and full swap. Any advices would be welcome.

[cplnuswing 4,711]

Best advice is to just go with no expectations other than having a fun night out together. Do that, and you can't go wrong!

 

Have you talked about what went wrong the last time, and what you are going to do differently this time? Swinging is sort of an up and down thing and takes a lot of patience. When it's good, it can be really really good. But when it's not, it's easy to get frustrated and turned off with the whole idea. And, to be honest, the newer you are at it, the more likely your experiences will fall into that latter category. That's why it is important to not have expectations, that just makes the let down even harder if things don't go as well as they could.

 

Good luck, hope you have a great time!