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Do you like to be spanked while having sex? Do you like light taps or full on spanks that leave a bright, red mark? What about getting taps on the pussy? What about you, men? Do you like to give or receive?

 

For me, it really depends on the playmate. I don't advertise that I like it but if they ask, I'm more than willing to see if they are good at the art of spanking. I'm not much into being pussy spanked though. I like to spank...but mostly for silly fun!

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My wife loves it!!

 

Both spanking and being spanked. She love's a nice pink/white ass.

 

I, however, am not. So it really helps our relationship.

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Ms. Gold loves it as well, but she would never think about trying to spank me in return...that would only lead to a much harder spanking for her.

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I'm not really into the full-on spanking with leaving a mark, but a nice slap on the ass in the heat of the moment, either giving or receiving, is welcome and fun. Kind of an encouragement sort of spank I guess; faster, faster, more, more :)

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Never done either. Just not in my makeup to do that to a woman I guess... Probably even if she aske for it. I dunno... Just seems wrong. However, I enjoy the hell out of the stories of pussy spanking and pussy whipping... So I like it as a fantasy.

 

As far as being spanked... Last time I was about 10 years old. LOL! Just doesn't do anything in my mind so don't think I would get anything out of it physically if it happens. Now ball slapping is another thing. I had my wife do it once and enjoyed the heck out of it. Not sure how hard I would like it but again strikes and videos get me going.

 

Sunbuckus... How hard do you like it? What would you think if your play partner just couldn't do it to you? You say you are not much into pussy spanking... So does that mean that you like it some?

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Sunbuckus... How hard do you like it? What would you think if your play partner just couldn't do it to you? You say you are not much into pussy spanking... So does that mean that you like it some?

 

There's been two playmates that are able to know where to spank, how much pressure to apply, and the subtly of allowing that hand to linger for just a half second once the spank has been applied. It's not an all out "as hard as you can hit"...those aren't really fun. It's the control that the spanker exhibits that separates those who do it for just their pleasure versus those who do it for mutual fun.

 

As for pussy spanking, my "not much into it" statement is my polite way of saying it isn't for me. I'd try it under certain circumstances but otherwise, it's a no go.

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I like a small amount of not too hard spanking during sex. Just a fun kind of thing, a smack here and there. Honestly, I like it with play partners because I feel like they are careful. It is really fun to be riding someone in cowgirl and have someone else spank me.

 

I don't think I would get into being spanked outside of sex or as foreplay. But, if someone was into that, I might give it a try.

 

I do like to slap people around and my husband likes that quite a bit. I only do it if someone tells me they like that.

 

We didn't do either of those things before swinging so it's been fun to learn new things.

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Yes, I enjoy spanking. On the ass, on the puss, its a very effective tool to move me along. Hubby will smack my ass a couple of times when we are in an MFM and I’m doing oral on the other guy and I’ll hear “oh yea, do that again” because I instantly pick up the pace when I feel the spank... Its a real turn on for me.

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Related, maybe. During a recent doggy-style play, a little voice in my head said, "pull her hair". I did. She squeaked with pleasure.

 

Other play partners have requested this.

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I definitely like some hard spanking on my ass during play. The feeling of heat coming from the skin being spanked is a real turn on for me. It's not just smacking it as hard as possible. I really think some are better than others at it. No pussy spanking for me though.

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I love being spanked, ass or pussy. Something about going to play alone, then coming home "dirty" for a spanking that is awesome!

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I do not like it done to me at all, nor do I like to do it. I don't get enjoying it either although I know there are plenty that do. Stinging skin from a spank or slap just does not feel good. Instant hard on reducer. I don't like hurting my woman so I don't like to do it ether. Never had a woman who liked it either. Certainly never had any woman request it.

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I'm more than a bit of a sadist and spanking is just about my favorite activity. So it's good my partner is a spanko and even nicely reminds me if I've neglected her ass for too long. I like spanking pussy also, and she cums from it when done at the right moment. So put that down in the "Yes, and yes" column. :spank:

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Several of my play friends like getting spanked, and I am getting better at giving a good, well-timed smack, with a rub afterwards. Some like it at the beginning, while others do not really find it hot until they are worked up a bit. The Mrs. likes a little bit of spanking as well, but she definitely needs to be warmed up first!

 

I have gotten a couple of spanks with a crop, from a woman who enjoyed turning the tables on me. My reaction was along the lines of, "Ow, what the FUCK!", so I'm thinking that receiving a spanking is not for me!

 

I have not tried much pussy-spanking. Maybe a little smack or three with my cock, but not with my hand. I don't want to hurt anything!

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I was never one for spanking, hair-pulling, or even verbal domination - until Lora (hubby's ex) on my invitation, returned to fucking him again. We were/are jealous of one another and one day got into an argument that uncharacteristically for us resulted in a physical fight. It turned us both on and increased our love/desire for one another, and led to light spanking, hitting, hair-pulling and on occasion, peeing on one another, and intense verbal abuse. We do this alone (even had such urges to do it that we have gotten a hotel room several times) so as not to upset the others. We thought it would be even better if we had David there, and we did once, but it upset him so now it's just Lora and me when we can be alone. Otherwise, no one better try that spanking shit with me.

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. We do this alone so as not to upset the others. .. it's just Lora and me when we can be alone. .
My wife does some of the spanking stuff when I'm not there as well because I don't like it. She spanks, tries up, and puts things in the ass of a guy who for whatever reason wants it, but is a submissive for one particular woman.

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I had stayed away from spanking my wife till one day while in her from behind I gave a little slap and she moaned. I slapped a little harder. She liked it. There is a threshold where the pleasure turned to pain and I have learned that threshold.

I have met women who had a higher threshold. I have met women who enjoy having their hair pulled. My wife certainly doesn’t.

I never thought of spanking a pussy. The only spanking was with my tongue.

I once was with someone who asked me to slap her pussy. She yelled out slap my cunt. I took my dick and slapped he with it. She said No slap my cunt. I did lightly. Then we fucked. I didn’t get the slapping there.

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When I was a teenage girl, I would “spank” my puss lightly with the back of my hair brush as a means of masturbation; it was much more effective than just using my finger. I suspect that in part led to the pleasure I now get from more serious spankings of my ass, pass and nipples. Combined with a little bondage, its very exciting. Sometimes we get carried away and I have welts on my ass the next morning. This is a later in life relationship and this hubby was a little slow to get into it, giving me just one or two swats early on. But, now, he has gotten into it, executing it nicely and adding in the bondage and leveraging my submissive tendencies as well.

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Just voted. If you haven’t, go now.

Over the years I have been with guys who pull hair (I don’t like it) and had my butt spanked during sex. There is a fine line between a stinging pleasing pain and being hurt. I never want to hurt or be bruised. I understand some people enjoy pain, I don’t. My husband knows just how much pressure he can use. He knows how much to squeeze my nipples, rub my clitoris and how hard to spank. I have never been spanked on my puss.

Now I have found that some men enjoy being spanked. Other than my husband there is one guy who really opens up to his sexual desires with me. He likes his butt spanked hard and his junk lightly slapped and squeezed. He says it is difficult to tell others he is with what he likes. I feel special.

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. He says it is difficult to tell others he is with what he likes. I feel special.
Good reasons why we here have sex with other people, and why sometimes it's good to play alone.
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My wife likes to slap my hard cock. I like it too! We're not talking a full on knock me out slap, but a good solid smack on the shaft is fun. I like to have my ass spanked and she does as well. but not hard, no welts or even serious redness, more as a playful reminder. We also pat her puss. No slap, but more a soft tapping. Gets her going and her clit hard as a rock. Just thinking about it is getting me hard.

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We have discovered that Mrs Doc likes to have her clit and pussy lips lightly smack by my (or someone elses)erection. The first time we tried it she came hard and squirted. What fun! Depending on mood and setting, gently slapping her pussy with my hand works too. Like noangles and in almost the same fashion, we discovered that she occasionally likes her ass smacked while getting fucked from behind. These are primarily things we do together since she feels very vulnerable and has to have total trust in her partner.

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My GF likes to be spanked very hard.  She also likes being slapped across the face and a lot of other rough stuff.

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Not a turn on for me, giving or receiving.  It's one of those thing that, "i just don't get."

 

To each, his own.

 

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I like to give and receive butt pats and massage but am OK with more vigor if requested.

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My wife loves being spanked on ass and pussy.. .  She is confident and assertive in real life, but loves to be submissive when we play and loves when I give her directions.

 

We play a scenario where I had to send her to a man who trains wives..  I start by blindfolding her and then give directions as I spank her

 

Pull your panties down and get on all fours, face in the pillow

you are such a dirty slut.. look at that white juicy ass.

reach between your legs with both hands and spread your wet pussy apart...

Spank.  Spank.  Spank!  (she gasps and moans loudly after every spank)

you are such a bad girl.. spank spank... moan

now pull those big ass cheeks apart ... oh yeahhh look at that puckered hole as I brush a fingernail across it

now raise up so I can tweak those big titties (she complies)

spank spank

You like this baby don't you (yes I do so much)

your ass is so pink now..can you take more?

yes 

spread your legs apart 

spank!  on her pussy.. spank!  moans much louder now

finger twists her nipple as I spank.  making her beg for it.  making her wait for it and play with her pussy

she has squirted from spankings like this.. we love it

 

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We read a story of a man with a mushroom penis who hired a porn star to spank him with a Forbes magazine. 

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10 hours ago, couplers said:

I'm a naughty and dirty girl, but I don't get spanked.  I get ice cream for acting a slut.

Yummy!  Wondering what is your preferred ice cream flavor?  Inquiring pervy minds who love spanking want to know.... 😇🖐️🤳

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I keep my bush trimmed, but fairly full, because my lovers know when and how to grab a handful and pull it just right.  The hair on my labia is trimmed much closer for other reasons. 

 

On 6/11/2024 at 4:39 PM, EroticGent said:

what is your preferred ice cream flavor?

Melon.

 

On 6/11/2024 at 4:39 PM, EroticGent said:

pervy minds who love spanking want to know....

I'll spank.  Mind if I use a paddle?  I will make you scream and beg to stop.  Everything else, men scream and beg me not to  stop.

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On 6/11/2024 at 12:39 PM, EroticGent said:

what is your preferred ice cream flavor?

>Melon.

 

Fascinating non-vanilla choice!  Fruity and with some potential sexual undertones.

 

On 6/11/2024 at 12:39 PM, EroticGent said:

pervy minds who love spanking want to know....

>. I'll spank.  Mind if I use a paddle?  I will make you scream and beg to stop.  Everything else, men scream and beg me not to  stop.

 

Thank you for the warning and disclaimer!  No experience with paddles but do love a firm hand, riding crop, and floggers.  

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