Being filmed

[MN Tom 251]

Ok, tonight I just had my first experience being filmed. Well, moreso of the first experience with a camera in the room since all it filmed was my backside.

 

How it started was we met a couple at the last party, and after talking with them a while, we learned that aside from them swinging together, the gal goes out separately and films her encounters, and the hubby loves to watch it. And he truly does, I talked with him for about an hour about this, he really enjoys watching her on film.

 

So, I discussed playing with her, and agreed to filming under the rule that my face would never see the camera. Easy enough, camera is fixed on tripod, I make sure that it's always at my backside.

 

We start playing a bit, kissing, fingers and oral, and then we are ready for the penetration so she turns on the camera. I soften up.. She plays with me a bit while I continue using my fingers on her, and we try again later, same deal, condom goes on, I'm fine, but soften up quickly before penetrating more than a few times.

 

This routine continues for a few more attempts, interspersed in the non penetration action though was some really good oral/finger work. Had her legs quivering and pulsing, it was really enjoyable for both of us. I'm really learning that I thoroughly enjoy making women climax with fingers and oral.

 

But damn if I couldn't have intercourse on camera.

 

Amazing how nervous that made me, even more nervous than my first time with another woman surprisingly.

 

This got me thinking, I was kinda likening the camera to group play (knowing that someone else would be watching) , and if group play has the same effect on me... umm yeah.

 

Very interesting learning experience for sure.

 

Don't think I'll go for cam duty anytime soon.

 

And of course I'm one of those guys who doesn't expect this sort of thing to happen to himself, I pop wood at pools, beaches, wherever.

And yet here I am, softening up the world when a little camera makes an appearance.

 

haha yeah

[Big Rock 173]

I can empathize. I would have a very difficult time performing on camera or in front of a large group. Mainly because I think that filming is an incredibly bad idea, in the first place. The potential for something going wrong and possible public exposure is enormous.

[PTTimeDC 120]

We do this quite often in our MFM and have found that 8 out of 10 guys perform with no problem but we are very clear from the beginning that filming is non-negotiable. If you want to lay with the wife you need to do it like a movie star--camera and all. We actually kicked at guy out once, complete with hard on, because he thought he could talk (whisper) her into doing it without.

 

And I disagree that it's a bad idea; a single guy might think so but for a couple it can be an amazing way to continually inject energy into your sex lives.

[fun4Ds 1,097]

Don't look at me for to much advice. I'm the camera guy and understandably happy with that. I get involved with the angles and background sound and such. My only success as the star performer I had to realize I want to be seen. Couldn't imagine thinking about my face being seen without that being a big distraction in it's self. Hence, I'd need the other "camera guy" in the room to take care of that responsibility along with, post editing if I worried about my face being shown.

 

Sounds like you need a small hand held remote control, for the "fluffer" moments. Or, don't worry about your face being shown. Trust who your with to do post editing if thats an issue. Get involved with the production and release....

[Big Rock 173]

fun4Ds said:

Don't look at me for to much advice. I'm the camera guy and understandably happy with that. I get involved with the angles and background sound and such. My only success as the star performer I had to realize I want to be seen. Couldn't imagine thinking about my face being seen without that being a big distraction in it's self. Hence, I'd need the other "camera guy" in the room to take care of that responsibility along with, post editing if I worried about my face being shown.

 

Sounds like you need a small hand held remote control, for the "fluffer" moments. Or, don't worry about your face being shown. Trust who your with to do post editing if that's an issue. Get involved with the production and release....

 

The trust issue is the thing. Many of us know couples who have divorced or separated and these videos or pics will turn up on the web, as a means of embarrassing or discrediting the former SO. I personally know a lady, in a very responsible position, who took some nude shots during a vacation. Her Ex-husband sold them to an online porn company, and she was forced to resign.

[bi4me2 93]

(him)

 

A very good friend of ours was a pretty big porn producer 'back in the day'. He talked about this all the time, it is a lot more common than you would think.

 

Once you get over the nervousness it gets better

[fun4Ds 1,097]

(him)

 

A very good friend of ours was a pretty big porn producer 'back in the day'. He talked about this all the time, it is a lot more common than you would think.

 

Once you get over the nervousness it gets better

 

Gotta love a good fluffer too I just happen to love Mrsfun and her fluffing

[Big Rock 173]

Well, I have no axe to grind with those who choose to film or take pics of their escapades. To each his own. But it would be very interesting to see the reaction of these film buffs, if their teenage kids saw mummy and daddy partying naked on the web. If there are no pics, there is no problem, and frankly I don't trust ANYBODY that much.

[celtic239 297]

You need to be VERY careful as to WHO is allowed to film and WHO will have custody of the film. I can see big problems if someone has taped a couple and the next thing you know they are the stars of "Amateurs Gone Wild" DVD.

[Big Rock 173]

celtic239 said:

You need to be VERY careful as to WHO is allowed to film and WHO will have custody of the film. I can see big problems if someone has taped a couple and the next thing you know they are the stars of "Amateurs Gone Wild" DVD.

 

My point exactly. Who do you trust to do this? Your SO? What if you get a divorce? What if you get someone else to do it and they need the money? It's too risky.

[MN Tom 251]

My point exactly. Who do you trust to do this? Your SO? What if you get a divorce? What if you get someone else to do it and they need the money? It's too risky.

 

Well basically in our case filming/pictures involving identifiable traits/faces are out. Neither of us is turned on by the thought, so not having it is pretty easy.

 

In theory I dont care if a film is running of my body, but again, in practice that wasn't the case.. haha

[Big Rock 173]

MN Tom said:

Well basically in our case filming/pictures involving identifiable traits/faces are out. Neither of us is turned on by the thought, so not having it is pretty easy.

 

In theory I dont care if a film is running of my body, but again, in practice that wasn't the case.. haha

 

This sounds OK to me. I wouldn't want pics or videos of GF and I for our kids to see. Yuckk.

[Alura 2,766]

Thinking back on our experiences, I would have hated to have had a camera man flitting back and forth around the scene. I'm sure I'd have found it distracting.

 

I found it more fun to concentrate on Mrs. Playmate and/or Mrs. Alura without worrying about whether or not my face was being filmed.

 

Consider me old-fashioned...

[bobo 16]

Big Rock said:

I personally know a lady, in a very responsible position, who took some nude shots during a vacation. Her Ex-husband sold them to an online porn company and she was forced to resign.

 

Some things are ok in love and war, but anyone who would do this is a sorry ass bastard! A poor example of a human. Some thing are fair but this is as low as a person could get. The other person trust you and this should be respected.

[Coupleerotic22 1,417]

Some things are ok in love and war, but anyone who would do this is a sorry ass bastard! A poor example of a human. Some thing are fair but this is as low as a person could get. The other person trust you and this should be respected.

 

True, but unfortunately, there are more than a few sorry ass bastards out there.

[asncpl 726]

I have let Mr. A film me with another couple or single male before, and I know he gets a kick out of watching them and I do too, but I wouldn't let anyone else film or use someone else's equipment. That's from learning it the hard way after someone hacked into a fellow swinger couple's online photo gallery and they had a couple of pictures of us. Luckily nothing as serious as losing a job.

[Big Rock 173]

Coupleerotic22 said:

True, but unfortunately, there are more than a few sorry ass bastards out there.

 

This is definitely a very sh*tty thing to do, but I have known it to happen, more than a few times. People will video or take pics of orgies or encounters, and think nothing of it, then a few years down the road, somebody will be having marital or money problems, and voila` your face and that of your SO is on youtube or some "homemade", porn site.

[Tadahiko 147]

We have filmed each other all the time. All three of us enjoy it and don't have any problem 'performing' on camera. I (kari) like getting out old footage to watch when I masturbate. but we don't party with strangers so there isn't much chance of somebody spreading our stuff around too much. All the video has stayed in our house with a couple of exceptions. There are still pix on the web of us doing it but you can't identify us. and there are a few full frontal nude [nonsexual] photos of me on the web that show my face......but I wont say WHERE! ?

 

Besides, I don't think any of us would have any huge problems if something explicit went public. It's not like we're teachers or a church we're hiding things from. I know the owners of my company would not be bothered in the least they already know were in a threesome. Todd maybe yes, but even that seems like a stretch. As for our kids we are already pretty up front with them they would probably just find it embarrassing rather than traumatic.

 

I would have much more of an issue with my address/full name/personal data being put on the web than recognizable photos of me. The people that know me personally are not the ones I try to shield my identity from.

[whatwewant 38]

I found one of our old movies on a website the other day. No faces, so it really doesn't bother us. At least someone is enjoying them.