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And once again Paramour dodges questions.....one begins to wonder why :confused:

 

Come on Paramour tell us

 

Does you wife know that you post on this board?

What was the life changing experience that led you and your wife away from swinging?

What makes you think that your way is that only way?

 

I'm curious as to if Paramour will actually answer or not...stay tuned ladies and gents...... :kissface:

 

Jenn

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Paramour,

 

Anytime anyone comes on this board and has an opinion that is not a typical PC swinger response they have a tendency to get blasted on here. I've been reading this board for years and have seen it too many times to count. This is especially the case any time you have an opinion that opposes those that live on this board and compulsively post on it. If you hold a different opinion that is not what the popular posters think then you must be a troll, a single male pretending to be married,a married man deviously posting here without his wife's permission, or some other description that defines you as not being credible. So, As long as you are on here you better do as the flock does or don't be surprised when you are no longer able to post due to being blocked. And you are absolutely right about the moderators. If you have an opinion that doesn't fall within the spectrum of their own beliefs people can flame you all day long without reprimand. But if you were to say something half as bad as them you will eventually find yourself gone from here. I've seen some very interesting and thought provoking characters get 86'd on here. In fact I wouldn't be surprised if this post doesn't get me in trouble with someone.

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Paramour2_99 said:
Of all the replies I see to this , "man blowing a man thread" that's worth replying to is the one by (I think his name is Vegas Lee).

 

No I can't say God Hates Homosexuals, (and they shouldn't be called fags). Isn't fags derogatory??? Doesn't that go against the rules in this chat of personal attacks against others by name calling ???? What happened to freedom of opposite opinion in here??? Man you guys are violent now,, and the moderator just sits back in the wings and allows it - but if it were me I get hate mail from her, but that's cool.

 

Anyway,,,,,God does not hate (Homosexuals) of Fags as Vespertine put it and I don't remember the guy saying he was one. God loves the sinner but hates the sin. We're all Gods children.

 

Sincerely "X" Swinger

 

Paramour2_99

 

Once again you are making assumptions. You did not read the statements in the context that they where made in.

 

You are not here for any reason but to bait and get reactions. You are not up for honest debate or reasoning at all.

 

I have many gay friends, they use the "fag" word all the time and don't care about it. Just the way it is but since you have not spent the time with them you don't have a clue. You assume once again. It is not the word, it is HOW it is used.

 

Why do you just come here and act like the "all knowing" but refuse to answer questions? As you say, this board is for open communication. Your not being open and honest.

 

I am a few years older then you, have spent about 45 years of my life in the church and about 30 of them in the Lifestyle. I think that we could have a good conversation, (debate) if you would be honest. Are you up for it or is this just about all your way? This debate would be just about facts though, no assumptions or opinions, can you deal with just the facts?

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Anytime anyone comes on this board and has an opinion that is not a typical PC swinger response they have a tendency to get blasted on here... This is especially the case any time you have an opinion that opposes those that live on this board and compulsively post on it.
AMEN!

 

Now, is there anybody else who will take up the shout, or have they already migrated to other forums?

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I was inspired by CuriousAgain's "My Corona" song....and this thread that has taken so many twists and turns, it's been fun :)

 

 

To the tune of Soul Asylum's "Runaway Train"

 

Runaway thread never going back,

Runaway on a one way track,

Seems like I should be getting somewhere,

Somehow I'm neither here nor there.

 

Bought a ticket for a runaway thread,

I came back there laughing at the rain,

A little out of touch a little insane,

Just easier than dealing with the pain.

 

Runaway thread never going back,

Runaway on a one way track,

Seems like I should be getting somewhere,

Somehow I'm neither here nor there.

 

Runaway thread never going back,

Runaway thread's heading up the track,

Runaway thread burning in my veins,

Runaway but it all seems the same.

 

Now I'm going to be humming this all darn day.....

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Vespertine's undulating hips are addictive and could lead to thoughts about sex with her. I doubt your wife would like that.

 

And I wouldn't stare at my avatar too long or you might start wondering what it'd be like to be that cool Corona between my thighs.

 

I was going to post a reply but after looking at Ves's avatar and LM's Corona...I completely lost my train of thought...alll that came to mind was :fun:

 

But to answer the original question...it would be a polite "No thank you."

 

Thank you for your entertaining thoughts Paramour...makes me grateful that I was a Southern Baptist and survived!!

 

James

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I guess to get back to part of the original discussion.....I've been in this situation lately.....a bi couple with which I experienced my first true mm oral....the husband mentioned ( in front of the wife) about him and I possibly meeting for oral action when she's not available/around.....strictly oral to satisfy each other.....I'm assuming while relaxing and "having a beer" or whatever....

 

After thinking about it I decided that I still would like her around if any mm action is taking place....partly b/c i enjoy her watching that and then jumping in to help. But also b/c I didn't know if I'd feel truly comfortable with just me and him blowing each other

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Hey GSU22,

Has he ever allowed you to meet with her alone? If so, he might just be wanting to make sure this is a mutual thing for the two of them with you. If not, then maybe you could use this as a way of enjoying a private time with her. Swinging has to be totally fair and in the open.

 

And you just might enjoy it with him alone. Guys can be a little more honest and, well this may sound bad but we are guys, vulgar when they're alone. Might even be some things you two would like to try that you'd both feel uncomfortable exploring with her there.

 

You're young so don't think you have to try everything too quickly. But give it some open-minded thought before you tell him no.

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Paramour,

 

I think I finally "get it". You come to this board because you like to read about taboo sex. You get off reading about swinging and sex acts that you would/could never do. You're living your fantasy through "Us".

 

If your wife walks in while you're surfing this site or other porn sites, you can show her what a good Christian you are by showing her your posts. "I'm witnessing to the heathens", you might say. "I'm only on there to show them the way of God. I never once looked at those naked pictures."..... :rollseyes

 

What a great cover up to get your rocks off and still look like an upstanding Christian.

 

Don't hide behind Jesus. He knows what you're thinking.

 

I suggest that you don't hang out with us lost souls. If you lay down with the dogs too long, you might wake up with fleas. And don't forget the old adage...

 

A man can be measured by the company he keeps.

 

You've been spending a lot of time here.

 

Ves, right on!! Once again you read my mind :lol: Oh, and just so you know I too have gotten stuck on your Avatar and just watched it for a while :rolleyes:

 

 

"So... here we have a guy who quit swinging to become a Christian, taking on a bunch of housewives who quit Christianity to become swingers. I just knew this was going to be good..."

 

You're assuming....... I haven't quit either!!

 

 

This thread certainly has danced around a lot of issues. It was long but entertaining to read. As far as the original question since I'm not a guy I can't answer it but I did enjoy the many diverse answers.

 

Mrs Spoomonkey

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To answer the original question about having a straight friend wanting to give me a blowjob. Uh, it actually happened to me! Being the friend that I am I of course obliged him. Unsure at first, his innate skill quickly became apparent. The thing that surprised me was that he saw it all the way through. Of course I returned the favor.

 

No I didn't call home first, but I did tell my wife all about it. She wanted me to bring him over for some more!

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I would "frown intensly" and say "NO THANKS" and pass on that one. ( However, if one of my friends were around I would recommend that this dude go check him out, just for the laugh !!) :lol

 

michael

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Yes - it's been years since I've had a blow job from a man - but I did enjoy in then and I know I would enjoy it now.

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don't worry chicup, my hubby would have a fit if this happened to him, he's extremely against m/m action. Course he loves to watch me and a g/f

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Breath out!-----Deep breath! ----Release! Complex subject involving social, intellectual, political, evironmental (meaning upbringing), peer-group, emotional, religious and personal issues. There is much which I agree with and still things I see differently, but appreciate and respect the other opinion. I was looking for a topic to join the discussion as a newbie to the board, but all I can say to all of you is; "Follow your bliss!"-------as long as it hurts no one else!

It's hot right now in the Virgin Islands and I could use a Corona,

Or, Caribe or Presidente!

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Hey Newbie,

Well, I don't think you're so stupid at all! In fact, wish you and your wife were my best friends! :)

Rich

 

Rich, I'm sure it would be a great deal of fun for all involved! Too bad we're so far apart.

David

 

Somehow I get the feeling that the straight guys are getting squeemish.

:lol:

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Somehow I get the feeling that the straight guys are getting squeemish.

:lol:

 

Nope not squeemish - Its just not for James. He says to each his own!!!

 

Jenn

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stupidnewbie said:
Somehow I get the feeling that the straight guys are getting squeamish. :lol:

 

Nah - I think it is cool. If you want to do it and you find a partner to play with, go for it. It just isn't for me - which experienced bisexuals know means I'd be lousy at it anyway (all the gagging and crying can distract from the eroticism).

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I'm with you guys on this. Doing or being done by another guy does nothing for me. But I'm that way about girl on girl...what's the point?

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In the art gallery I used to have in New York, I once held a private art opening for a naturalist group. Being from the skinny dipping days and having been on stage in a play nude, I had no problem joining in being naked. (That's a whole topic in itself that I will refrain from discussing here) Everyone talked about being comfortable with their body and how healthy it was. It was obvious to me from the beginning that being comfortable with your body was an excuse for something else. The majority were men and somehow the videos always ended up focused on the genital areas. What was coming to light as the evening went on was that the sexual undertones were a constant source of tension and that what was really going on had to do with levels of discomfort, including myself. I had private openings for lesbian and Gay men groups as well and the same tension was present even with the clothes on. What was the difference compared to a "normal" (as in statistical norm?) heterosexually charged opening? Actually none! Except for the clothing worn or not worn. What I am trying to say, is that I feel the tension in this discussion even in some of the jokes. I am not saying that is wrong, simply something to be considered in the way we respond. I do not exclude myself, I am well aware that I have my share of issues.

OOPS- I better be careful,

Oscar Wilde "A man who knows himself is shallow indeed."

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Nope.....and if it was a buddy of mine that asked me, I'd probably give him a queer look and tell him I hope I misunderstood him :lol: Would definately ruin our friendship.

 

Brett (and Tammy)

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Nope.....and if it was a buddy of mine that asked me, I'd probably give him a queer look and tell him I hope I misunderstood him :lol: Would definately ruin our friendship.

 

Brett (and Tammy)

 

Ahem, What kind of look would you give him?

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I'm not squeamish, just not interested in it. Eveyone has their turn ons and turn offs and not interested in things. Whatever consenting adults want to do that doesn't cause harm to anyone isn't my concern as long as they leave me out.

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The only problem I have with male bisexuality isn't that people do it, just that its a major turn-off for both myself and Mrs. Chicup to see it. Were this to become popular at most swingers clubs odds are we would stop going. It is not homophobia or anything of the sort, it is just a sexual turn off, and if you are turned off at a club based around sex it sort of defeats the purpose of going.

 

I'm sure this economic factor is why the clubs we know of don't 'allow' male bisexual activity. Its one of those unwritten rules which is most likely based more around economics than any other reason.

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Really, I wasn't intending to offend with my squeamish remark. I fully understand that bisexuality isn't for everyone. I like it and that's enough for me, acceptance isn't something I have ever placed a great deal of value on. I'm more likely to smile and flip you a bird than to discuss it! :) (JUST KIDDING!)

 

As for going to a club.... well I'd rather not do that anyway. There are so many bi guys out there I don't see any need to seek one in a swing club or to place myself on public display, especially to an unwilling audience. (willing is a TOTALLY different story!) Nor would I ever approach someone unless I had a strong indication that he wanted to be approached.

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Well if it was in a threesome I would not stop him, but one on one would not be that much of a turn-on for me. There is also the wife thing, if she doesn't know I wont do it. Ii have had mfm with friends and their wives but this has never come up with them but that was a long time ago. My wife knows about the past and knows I'd like to get back into the life as she is all for it but time is not on our side :rolleyes:

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I think my wife and her girlfriends have told me that they would find it totally hot to see guy on guy action. I know that I'm straight (heterosexual activity turns me on the most - more than girl on girl and definitely more than guy on guy). Yet, I'm very interested to try it out sometime. I suppose then that I'm bi-curious. I think that it would be fun and probably very pleasurable.

 

I'm not really responding to the original question, because I would consider any sexual activity without the consent of my wife as cheating.

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