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gatorvol64

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Due to many outside responsibilities, I haven't been on the forums in a long time. It isn't that I haven't been interested, it's that I have some limitations....time and finances at the moment for internet access. However, I got a message asking about our quad and it made me realize that I need to update things here.

 

After four years, our quad relationship ended about one month ago.

 

Long story made short is....I have boundaries, not rules, but I need honest, respect and integrity. I feel if those are honored, I really don't need "rules". These were constantly being crossed by the other female in our quad.

 

I ended things with the BF but that doesn't mean I didn't/don't love him. So, I'm dealing with a breakup and it's been since I was a teenager that I actually had to do that the last time.

 

The relationship with my husband and the other wife has really been over for a while but for the admitting it.

 

There is so much I have learned through all of this personally and so far my husband and I have come as a couple. I'm very happy with these things.

 

I'm not trying to be vague here but I don't believe I feel like going into all the ditty gritty of things at this time. I'm still working things out in my head but I did feel the need to post the latest while I had the chance.

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I missed your posts and the sage advice contained within. I'm glad you're back as I see you have given some timely advice today. I will give you this wish that things work to the better as time goes on.

 

~Michael

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Thanks for popping by. Your absence has not gone unnoticed. I'm glad to hear the update, even if it isn't all happy news. But it sounds like you and your hubby are doing your best to work through it all.

 

Hugs,

 

=)

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Vol, You've always helped me wrap my mind around Polly relationships, and now, as an "insider", myself. For that I'm thankful. I had a rough time wondering some days when a relationship between Mrsfun, a lover and I broke things off for the best.

 

We can only learn what we know now, as we go through life...

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The important thing is that you came out of this with your primary relationship intact. We miss you here, but hope the two of you are doing well.

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