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Couples Cruise Review part 2

Now the 'bad' and that bad is mostly not on CC but on Royal Caribbean.   We have cruised RC before on vanilla cruises a few years ago so we have some basis of comparison in this.   Over all the staff was very polite, and friendly. The reaction from the crew to the activities were sort of mixed. The white members of crew looked like they really wanted to join in (especially one female member who you could tell was having a blast). At night some of the officers would make it to the disco to
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Couples Cruise Review 2011 part 1

Couples Cruise Review for the April 25-30th on Radiance of the Seas.   Let me preface this review with the fact that while some of the comments and review may seem negative, we are booked for the November Cruise in 2012 and plan on keeping the reservation, even though we could cancel it now without penalty. If it was 'that' bad we would not be going on another one. I say this now so people who quit reading half way don't get the wrong impression.   First lets start with the good. The orga
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I figured out my wife was perfect in a way I never knew before.

Sometimes you just don't appreciate your wife enough. You take for granted all her good attributes and harp on those which you find lacking.   Today, I realized something about my wife I have overlooked for years without giving her a proper complement on.   This is something which is so fundamental to our relationship, such a focal point of our lives together, something which would be so hard to live without, yet, I, her husband, the one who knows her better than anyone, was completely obl
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Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!

How my wife can be so oblivious to her sexuality is getting frustrating.   We were at a setting lately (note the vagueness) where she would be 'on display' but vanilla safe. There was no nudity, there were others doing it, it was for a charity, and she made every excuse to not do it. The excuses were real but they were not the reason. I've been hoping she would break out of her shell at some point in her life but its like we make 1 step forward and then 1 step back. Its baby steps but soon
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Thinking with the dick.....

So, I've given a barrel load of good advice here over the years. I don't believe in false modesty and I know I've usually been good for people who need help.   And yet, my own dick is attempting to betray me. I won't get into details, and its nothing like cheating, but my dick wants to think for me. My brain says 'no, don't let it happen again', but my dick says 'its not such a big deal, you know you want to do it'.   It reminds me of dating, when you weren't getting any you were more likel
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Browsing profiles

Ok I was bored and looking at local profiles, this is a sampling of my mind while I looked.   Dude you are not 34, if you are 34 I am 18, and I'm not 18 I'm almost 40. ...... Now you look your age, but you are taking pictures of your wife in the bathroom, and then take a picture of yourself with the camera on one side of your face in the mirror. First why did you use the bathroom? Second, why didn't you hand her the camera? ..... 185.....no...I know 185, thats not 185, maybe if you were
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Priceless

Airfare to tropical location - 900 dollars   Everything else the trip costs - Boatload of dollars.   Your wife finding the courage to play Frisbee naked on a busy beach where everyone else is just sitting or swimming? - Priceless.   It was a big day for my very shy girl. It most likely helped that she was in better shape than most of the beach goers. The beach is an unofficial nude beach and most were naked, but I didn't think she would have the guts for that her first day here. I'm sure
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Becoming THAT couple.

I've had an odd mental transformation lately. While not long ago I had us simply defined as a tweener couple I'm thinking we could change that.   I know looks are the 600 lb gorilla on the swingers board no one wants to talk about except in very general terms. We are all different shapes, sizes, and ages here, and for almost all of the discussions looks mater not at all. Posts where individual looks do come up people will become very catty or even hostile in a hurry, so I'm breaking sw
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All 'dressed' up and no where to go.

So the wife and I have been getting into better 'swinging' shape. I finally got the discipline to drop some 20ish lbs, and the wife after a long plateau has a new energy and has become almost a hard body. This means we are close to what we feel comfortable with swinging. We are almost ready to hit our B+ crowd and maybe hook up with drunk A listers (I keed I keed).   But....we are going no where.   For various reasons our old swinging friends are no longer an option. I'd love to go into d
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Tweener

As we are debating looking for new couples or continuing our retirement from new couples, my wifes main 'con' to the whole process is the search.   I've always considered us a tweener couple, well, outside of one period where we both let ourselves go. By tweener being we are on the attractive side of the equation but not on the 'oh they are hot' side of the equation.   One thing I am with both of us is brutally honest. I know my faults, I know my wifes, and I don't look at us as anything
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And a time for every purpose, under heaven...

To every season, turn turn turn, at least thats how the song goes, where we are suppose to accept the changes in life and our eventual deaths as just part of the way things work. Its a nice philosophy, comforting without the blanket of religion, and relatively true.   It also sucks when it happens to you.   When it comes to us, as in my wife and I, I think our seasons are turning. Our kids are of an age that they take more and more of our time, and its time I won't begrudge them to meet up
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Operation go be fat somewhere else....

Ok, since my first 'blog' about being fat I've actually gained a few pounds. Worse we were videotaping something (no not that kind of something) where I was just in a pair of cargo shorts and its official I've crossed the Rubicon into what I'd call unattractive.   So now I'm in 'do something about it mode' which in this case means 'eat less'.   To keep my honest I'll keep this updated every week.   Current weight - 223 lbs. Goal - 210 lbs.
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Well shit....

I promised myself I wouldn't blog, but I realized that my post was going to really be a blog.     I hate blogging in general, call me old fashioned, but what the hell, it is what it is.   Sooooo, here is the post... er blog.   This is my annual whine thread about exercise, pay it no heed.   Ok lets face it, most of us are more out of shape then we would like to be.   I am no exception, and I've managed to gain weight since this summer, and my intent this summer was to lose about 5-10 mo
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