I'll flat out admit it, I really hate the fact that as a reserved soft-spoken male I seem invisible at swing parties/clubs. I absolutely love seeing my gf have fun and also playing with her out in the open for others to watch. But my ability to attract swing partners is completely nil. No crying about it, it simply is what it is. I still have yet to believe that an overweight, introverted male (I'm an INFP for you Meyer's-Briggs devotees scoring @ home) can have fun to the same extent a more out
