As someone who has been a counsellor for many years, I am always somewhat surprised by the number of men who begin seeking advice on how they "can get their wife (or SO or girlfriend) to relax and enjoy the swinging experience." More often than not they are trying to get their partner involved in a fmf relationship to fufill their own personal fantasy.
However for all you guys who find yourself longing for 100% participation remember, a true swinging relationship is about mutual decisions an
