A domineering guy who holds his woman to a minimum quota schedule for performing 'wifely duties' is pretty creepy. A guy with the same schedule for when she has to fuck strangers who she's not into so that he can get laid is beyond creepy. That's total over-the-top creepy. That's a pimp.Originally Posted by neoparadigm
If you were to just come right out and represent yourself as a lifestyle D/s couple then people might accept you more because then at least you're being honest about it. "She fucks whoever I tell her to, whenver I tell her to, and we both get off on the dominance and control." See that could be hot, IF she were actually into it. My wife and I have done it that way, people can dig it if you're honest about it.
But you keep saying that she's not into it so just give it up. If she's not into it then you're just trying to trade her like wampum for more pussy.