So my husband has a big dick...by my standards. I have never measured it with a measuring tape, but it's a little more than two fists. I have yet to meet with anyone at a hotel party, house party or date that has been more than a one fister. Okay, so one guy was a little more than one fist, but not two. I have talked/webcammed with only one guy who was a two fister also. Because I like anal, i don't mind the one fisters. It doesn't hurt and goes in real easy with little lube. It is a very rare occasion that i can do anal with my husband, even with lube. But I am working on it. Plus if a woman can push a 8 pound baby out that thing why couldn't they take a 9 or 10 incher? Babies are 19 inches long on an average. Small guys don't satisfy me vaginally. or maybe they are just doing it wrong??? Or maybe it's me??? But anal is just fine.