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Dinner, dancing, travel, watersports, snowskiing
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Rhythm_Blues started following Approaching a couple when you don't know if they swing or not? and Secret signals?
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No doubt about it.. If you have a mate that is in a faster mode than you are, signals are a great way to slow them down. I seem to need more time to decide if I truely like the people involved first.. men don't seem to need anything more than a little encouragement! haha... My hubby and I use the back rub and scratch an itch combo also.. seems to work well for us!
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Does a history of cheating lead to swinging?
Rhythm_Blues replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
When hubby and I first started dating we talked about the fact that both of us had cheated on our spouses in the previous marriage. We liked the idea of being with other people and the chase was fun. It had nothing to do with love it was pure sex. So swinging seemed like the logical thing when we realized we were forever partners and never wanted to hurt each other like we knew we had our previous spouses. We do full swap but only same room and we are never without the other. To us its not sharing if we can't be there with each other and both of us participating. We still enjoy the chase, it just has a little different twist to it! -
My signal is to start twirling my hair with my finger. I never do that any other time so its obvious that I am not comfortable with this situation. Hubby just puts his hand on my leg and gives a little squeeze. But I don't think he has ever used his signal... I am usually the damper to most situation! Good luck with the on premise party. I have found they tend to be more than a newbie bargains for.
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Women with "Kid Marks" (stretch marks)
Rhythm_Blues replied to J & K's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
Guys you are right, we do have mental hang ups. They come from society mostly. Like the men who obsess over large breasts... women with small breasts feel inadequate. When you drool over a woman with a tight ass and flat stomach and we don't have them we feel like we are less desirable. This may not be how you feel but we do and that's what counts. You can't tell some one how to feel. The best thing to do is continue to reinforce that the woman you love is beautiful in your eyes regardless of your flaws. My husband told me once that, "yeah he wished my breasts were bigger but that I probably wished his dick was bigger too!" lol -
Are we the only bi couple out there?
Rhythm_Blues replied to geno58's topic in Finding People to Swing With
Chicup your comments confuse me... In the conversation with Quin about what does "BI" really mean you admit to being sucked on by a man and then in this coversation you state that two men together makes you ill. Maybe you should take a closer look at your own sexuality!- 39 replies
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