What I find wonderful about the swinger community is we can have this type of discussion with straight faces (for the most part). Can you imagine trying to have a discussion like this with your vanilla friends/coworkers?
I have known ladies that like big and that like average and we have always been able to talk openly about it. Myself, plain average, but like others, no complaints.
Screamingood... next time I am in Dallas can I apply for that DP?