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des1re06 last won the day on July 28 2008
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200 ExcellentAbout des1re06
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- Birthday 04/08/1964
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Couple
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Location
East TN
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Fantasy fulfillment! Boating, nudism and travel.
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Des1re06
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des1re06 started following SwingFest 2008, Does your doctor know you swing?, This Thread is Useless without Pictures. Help the men out! and and 4 others
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This Thread is Useless without Pictures. Help the men out!
des1re06 replied to Chicup's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Looks that turn me on: Linen pants - roomy, comfortable and touchable Silk blend shirts - touchable! The "original" comfort-wear Tommy Bahama: http://www.tommybahama.com/TBG/Men/Shirts/Camp_Shirts.jsp?showAll=1&gclid=CPOl0tD7npUCFQJvswodq0X_kg Then there's "fly" clothing, for a little more edgy: Flyclothing.com One of my favorite places for "silky" shirts. Good luck! Mrs. D -
I think it depends on the position and what you're used to. With really large (8 plus), I prefer cowgirl, so I'm in charge.
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Are some "swingers" just married cheaters?
des1re06 replied to newlythree's topic in Curious About Swinging?
Sadly, many don't understand the difference, and there is a big difference. -
Seducing a vanilla single female (as a couple)?
des1re06 replied to CallMeLoki's topic in Swinging Solo
Nice fantasy. I'd advise keeping it just that. Key word being "vanilla". There are many stories (horror) here about why. There a many singles (men and women) available at the clubs and on SLS. Would you shop for tires at a lingerie store? Good luck, Mrs. D -
I have to agree. Parties have been the best way. Mrs. D
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SwingFest 2008
des1re06 replied to ncmd_couple's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
Hope you're having a great time! Check-in day is always a madhouse. Yeah, this is what bothered us when we called to get information. They couldn't guarantee where we'd be and we couldn't stay in our RV and attend. Looking forward to hearing more. Mrs. D -
Lee, Your questions always make me think. Con: It would be a nightmare of paperwork, and would probably close said club down shortly. The only pro I see is that it would definitely cut down on the "looky loos". On the other hand, having a testing contact available for members would be a perk. Some folks are shy about asking their doctor for one. Just give them the number for your contact or have their business card somewhere, and you step back out of it. They can handle it in private. As for "private groups", that's another story. If you had a private group who agreed, then it might work. Mrs. D
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Trying to conceive, should we still swing?
des1re06 replied to mr_n_mrs_oz's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I wish you luck in your conception! Children are a joy and a privilege. I'd have to put my baby and their health first. My sexuality can wait. Mrs. D -
Couple admitted positive for gential warts - what now?
des1re06 replied to des1re06's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
I have no idea, but if they did tell you, would you go down on them? I don't think so. We've talked socially for about a year, but weren't that close. I was asked not to say anything. I wonder if they don't understand how contagious it is. I think I'll have a sit down with them and let them know. I'll also inform the doctor in our group. thanks for the advice. Mrs. D- 24 replies
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Having a couple over after the toddler goes to bed?
des1re06 replied to newbieswinger's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
We would never play with children in the house. The barn would be a different story though. -
Couple with a Single Female: Who pays for the room?
des1re06 replied to HisnHersnYours's topic in Swinging Solo
In this scenario, where the lady is driving a long distance to meet the couple, it just seems courteous to offer her a room, and that's what we would do. Mrs. D -
Couple admitted positive for gential warts - what now?
des1re06 replied to des1re06's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
She told me she currently had warts, not they were gone. She had planned to get them "burned" soon. Yes, they were actively kissing and letting people perform oral on them at the event. So, I felt uncomfortable, and we didn't play at all because of it. I'm just asking how you'd feel at if this was told to you at a house party. I know there are many different opinions in the scientific world about all sorts of STDs. It's a close group who see each other regularly. I was just a bit freaked. Yes, I'm thankful that she told me, but damn, why were they there in the first place. I have no idea if they told anyone else. I'm not thinking we'll never get an STD, but are currently this minute clean and want to lower the risk if possible. Mrs. D- 24 replies
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So, a couple floored me and admitted they're positive for genital warts. My initial reaction was, "why the f*ck are you swinging!!?" I, of course, started looking into what it means and how it's transmitted. Genital warts are very contagious. You can get them during oral, vaginal, or anal sex with an infected partner. You can also get them by skin-to-skin contact during vaginal, anal, or (rarely) oral sex with someone who is infected. About two-thirds of people who have sexual contact with a partner with genital warts will develop warts, usually within 3 months of contact. If you are infected but have no symptoms, you can still spread HPV to your sexual partner and/or develop complications from the virus. So, would you advise your immediate play group to avoid them, since they're obviously not taking themselves out of the game? They're still having oral and kissing (I witnessed this), and who knows what else. It's incredibly selfish of them to still be showing up at swing events, in my opinion. What do we do? Thanks, Mrs. D
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I'm curious about this now that you've got me thinking. Example: A good looking couple contact us. We check out their pics, profile and then certs. We notice that all their certs are from "perfect body" types. This goes through my head: Why are they contacting us? We're not perfect. We immediately think we won't meet their expectations because we aren't similar to the people they've played with. Hmmm, does anyone else do that? Mrs. D
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Yes, we love being watched. Take conversations out of the room though. Extremely irritating to have people standing around talking and/or laughing while you're getting your groove on. Mrs. D
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