Hi all,
OK, I'm sure this has been addressed at some point and if it has, please direct me to the thread. But my DH and I are very new to the lifestyle, we're actually just getting started. We had a "date" with another couple this week and are hoping we'll get together again (probably will), but we're just eagerly awaiting our first experience.
So, in our quest to find new friends, how do we nicely tell another couple that we're really not interested in meeting them after seeing their pictures on sites like SLS? We have a couple of people that have reached out to us, we've viewed their profile, told them "OK, send more pictures", they do and we see them and even though their bodies looked OK, their faces aren't as attractive to us as we had hoped, kwim? I feel bad turning someone down and not meeting them just because I don't find them attractive. Do you meet them anyway and hope to be friends only, or is that leading them on? I told my DH that I don't necessarily not want to be friends with others I'm not attracted to, but I don't want to play with them.
TIA for the advice.
Mr. and Mrs. Phish