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Nice ! ...Thank you

I've been respecting her wishes and yes we do have a good comunication on this topic (which comes up often) she is giving herself another year to reach her goal weight. And yes I'm a firm beliver that when we go & meet others in lifestyle she'll feel more confident.

Thank you for great feedback on this topic my suspicion is that once we actually start and all the attention she'll be getting, her self confidence will improve...now to get her started..and everyone is correct personality rules ..and no one's is perfect in reality....

Been a member on this site for a long time and we never experienced the lifestyle...but wife says she's not ready..I recently had a conversation with her and she says she is very unsecure with her body, she is in progress to loose weight and exercise (she is doing great) but I always thought her dody is great, a few pounds here and there, but considering our age it's expected. My question to this community is: how common is this feeling from women or men for that manner, to hinder the start of this lifestyle? (By the way she says when she feels good about her body we can start) Thank you for your responses.

Been lurking for a loooooooooooonnnnnnng time, used it to educate my self and wife...but wife does not want participate at this time, maybe in future (she says)...I respect her wishes and I envy everyone who does enjoy this lifestyle...it must be difficult to find 4 people that like each other..or at least respect each other's boundaries...I haven't given up hope that she'll get motivated soon. Thanks for listening

Believe or not we been discussing it for 13 years......I think she is stringing me along all this time...but I respect her wishes..it has to be a team effort...