We understand that the norm on most sites is you get to see someones body/package and once you get to know them a little a face.
Keeping that in mind:
Mrs. New likes to see your whole torso . . . chest, stomach and crotch. Close up dick picks are just a turn-off for her. Who cares how nice it is if it's attached to someone you're not attracted to? After that it's nice to see clothed pics with you dressed as you would for a nice cocktail party. Someone's personal style says a lot about them and can help indicate whether or not you might in fact get along. And finally, you need to have a nice, non-webcam photo of your face.
Hope this is helpful and didn't come off too shallow! Just putting the preferences she has out there since you asked for female opinion!