1colocouple
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- Birthday 12/25/1975
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Greeley Colorado
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Just started
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1colocouple
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Hi, So this is our 3rd post. We have a few questions. First I wanted to say love this place. Here are the questions: 1. For the guys: During our deflowering into this life style I could not get it up no matter how hard the woman I was with tried. I figured it was due to alcohol since I don't drink a lot. When they left after we were done I was able to get erect for my wife with no problem. How common is this. 2. With it being our first time we kind of just went the flow and the first couple to show interest. To be fair most there were 20 years our senior I would guess. What's the best way to not blow off a couple but to keep our options open? 3. What's the standard for setting up ground rules? Do we just say hey this is what we are looking for and open to? Thanks Mike and Terri
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Hi guys Just want to say Love the forum. We had our first experience at swapping when we were younger but I don't really count that since we were in our early 20's. Now the recent foray into the lifestyle was a blast. After many many talks we decided to go ahead and take the next step. We rented a room a local hotel in Denver known for it lifestyle friendliness. I wont post a name mainly do to the fact I am not sure its allowed. We were nervous to say the least. We got there early had a drink or 2 and then went to the clothing optional pool. Main we stood out as the newbies. First when we walked in they had bracelets color coded for what you were looking for. We just picked the one that said everything lol. We weren't sure what we were looking for. So we go in to the pool and everyone and I mean everyone was nude except us. Talk about standing out. So we looked around and decided to sit in a hot tub, the couple in the hot tub was older and we asked to get in the tub with them. They were the only ones in there. The other tub was full. We get in and with use being clothed must have made them uncomfortable so they left. Well we sat and just kind of absorbed the atmosphere of the place. We decided screw it let get naked and as soon as we did we had couples joining us in the tub. After 20 minutes or so we decided it was time for another drink and a smoke. We go back to our room and just kind of recharged then decided to go back to the pool. We nixed with the clothes and went in our towels. As we were heading back our neighbors door was open and they were nude as can be. So we keep going to the pool and get in the pool this time. As we were sitting in the pool we were watching a couple have sex and were playing around ourselves. So we noticed the neighbors come in and struck up a conversation with them. One thing led to another and we went back to our room which had a spa. We played a little in the spa then went back to the pool. After a while we ended back in our room and all four of us played for a while. My wife was thoroughly enjoying this opportunity. I've always wanted to see her with another woman and she did that gladly for me. I had a great time playing and I know she did as well. The one thing I learned is I need to stop after 1 Jack and coke. We have decided to definitely go again. I will post another thread with questions.
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A question about modesty
1colocouple replied to couplers's topic in Some Swingers Do - Poly, BDSM, & Nudism
One thing I noticed while we were in Germany is that everyone is more comfortable with their bodies. We did see some health spas that were clothing optional but we couldn't visit since we had our kids with us. We will be back in December and hopefully we can get in a little play time there.