Well! I left this topic alone and hubby finally realized I am here for him, always have been. He couldn't get over the way I don't get jealous. He finally got to see how much joy I get from seeing him have the time of his life! we had some friends over a few months ago and everyone got a little frisky. My husband and I thought we were breaking away from the group but we had a surprise waiting in our bed. We just ignored her cause we were so in the moment and before I knew what was going on she joined in! We all had a wonderful night and still get together whenever we can. Thank you all for your advice I read each reply many times and for me(us), it has worked out well.