Unfortunately one of the contacts was a from a single lady who said I am attractive but I'm too young for her liking, and the couple that contacted me we are still in touch and trying to get something lined up. I am really considering a paid account, I figured some people wouldn't contact free members, personally if I was a couple I probably wouldn't either, but hearing it from a member helps to influence my decision towards signing up. Is there anyone who doesn't like SLS????