I think the biggest reason I want to play only as a couple is because that is something we used to have together and don't any more. There for awhile I did a lot of playing but then was sent to a job in the middle of no where where I did no playing at all while she was fairly active. It was during this time that I started feeling jealous of her playing. Currently I am working a job where we can see each other every weekend, I have asked her about setting up dates, both MFMF and just a MFM with one of the guys that she's played with but we have not been able to for various reasons. No babysitter is the biggest reason, she doesn't like to ask her sister to watch him and doesn't trust anyone else. If I bring up that her sister watched the baby when she went out she replies that it was only for a few hours and that she was normally home by 10. I'm guess I'm just at the point where it bothers me that she wants to have the option to play solo but is not putting forth any effort (as I see it) to set it up where we can play together. We have talked and she agreed that we will not play separately but did so reluctantly. I asked her to give us a chance to play together some first and then we'll see if my feelings have changed.