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Curious that the guy was sneaking around behind the girl's back, but she wants to swing lol.

- Female to Female is the only kind of kissing allowed. - Always same room. - If we full swap (has only happened once so far) condoms are a must! - Everyone must like everyone.

Great to hear... The longer you do it, the more relaxed the whole thing gets. My wife and I don't swing very often, and it still can be a little weird for us... but it's been getting better and more fun. She's been getting more aggressive, which is what was lacking. Hopefully there will be many more good times for both of us!

I know it's not for us. Too sensual to be in different rooms (or however separated). When we swing, though we may be good friends with the other couple, when it comes down to it we sort of think of them as a live action sex toy lol. To not be together would make the experience feel too "romantic" with the other person. We save the romance for just us.

One of the things I like to do to spice things up and get my wife's "creative juices" flowing is while in bed, in the heat of the moment, I'll have her suck on my finger and say dirty little things about it being another guy at the same time etc. Might be a good little trick you can try out. Also, maybe try going to one of those theme hotels, at least I know of one by me... red lights, jacuzzi, heart shaped bed, mirrors on the ceiling... the whole shibang. It's a fun way to get kinky together. While there flip on the porn channel and turn it up... pretend it's another couple in the room.

Like someone said, it's definitely not a step in the *wrong* direction! My wife and I swing now and then, but we definitely started with baby steps. We did go to a strip club once or twice. Then while on vacation in Myrtle Beach we decided to try going to a small swinger club we found out about there. We ended up having a blast (nothing like a good first experience to get things started). She had a few drinks and got out on the dance floor with a bunch of other girls out there and even flashed me from the dance floor a few times. As the night wore on she went as far as going into one of those shadowboxes with another girl and did like a little silhouetted tease for me with her. They hit it off and later that night as she got very comfortable, she even went down on me while sitting on a couch next to the girl she mets husband while the girl went down on her husband next to us! So yeah it was a good start.... and it started the same as yours!