Our experience with Poly relationship was with a single male. Hubby and I had been looking for a playmate for awhile (we tend to be fairly selective). I had been talking to some guys through email and phone, when one really got my juices flowing. We had been trying to figure out some dates that we could all get together and meet, as my husband had not talked to him. I already knew he was the one! Prior to all of us meeting, he called me (which he usually did) and we invited him over. This was very out of character for me (meeting someone for the first time alone, and at my house), but it just seemed right.
He was everything I thought he’d be, and it didn’t take long before we were kissing. We ended up having sex for most of the afternoon. I didn’t tell hubby about the meeting or the ones that followed over a 2 week stretch before we all got together for the “general meeting”. When we all met for a drink, you can imagine the uneasiness between me and my new lover as we tired to not show too much emotion.
Following that meeting it was mainly all 3 of us that would get together to play. It all seemed to click among us. My hubby really gets off when I am really “into” my lover, and with this one- boy was I ever! LOL It’s always more erotic and enjoyable when you have sex with someone you really like. It was clear early on that we were very passionate with each other and we weren’t just fucking, we were making love.
Because hubby and I were so comfortable with this person, I would meet him by myself when my husband was traveling out of town. There was never a time that I thought of leaving my husband- It was just really great having two lovers.