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    Here's a few question regarding our swinging habits to let us all get to know each other better. If you haven't swung you feel free to reply with what you hope to do.

    Do you swing only with couples? Or do you enjoy singles as well?

    If you swing with singles, is it just single males or single females or both?

    If you only swing with couples, do you have just one couples that you play with? A small intimate group where you all only play within the group? Or do you meet new people on a regular basis to play with?

    When playing with couples do you pair off and go to different rooms? Or do you all play together in one big group?
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    We only swing with couples. Single women were the reason we got into to this to begin with, but we found had hard it was to meet them and began looking for couples. Single men were an option at one point (on my desire), but I lost that desire, so now we don't even look.

    With he swung with two couples at once, both of whom live four and six hours from us, so we don't get together often. We have done same room, same bed and as the rooms were ajoining we did pair off into each room, the door open all the time though.

    We only a few people that we have met that we will swing with (or have swung with). I don't prefer to go to much further from what we have now as we aren't the type that need to swing weekly or even monthly. We would rather have a few good friends and let it go at that. At one point we were meeting potential couples on a regular basis, it became too overwhelming and we haven't met with anyone new in over 6 months.
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    We usually play with couples, and would love a single woman, but haven't found that yet. We are not completely against a single man, we are just sort of keeping an eye out for the right one.

    We do not swap in seperate rooms, it's a rule to always stay together.

    We don't really have a regualr couple yet that we play with, it would be nice to find one.
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    Default Re: Swinging Options

    Do you swing only with couples? YES
    If you swing with singles, is it just single males or single females or both? Not into any singles at this time.


    If you only swing with couples, do you have just one couples that you play with? We only have one couple that we are with at this time. Still looking.

    When playing with couples do you pair off and go to different rooms? No separating into different rooms. We play together.


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    Default Where we are at................

    Do you swing only with couples? Or do you enjoy singles as well?

    Both, but couples much more often

    If you swing with singles, is it just single males or single females or both?

    We have one of each we get together with

    If you only swing with couples, do you have just one couples that you play with? A small intimate group where you all only play within the group? Or do you meet new people on a regular basis to play with?

    We have a group of 5 couples that gets together about once a month

    When playing with couples do you pair off and go to different rooms? Or do you all play together in one big group?

    Same room only, there is something wild about 10 butts in simultaneous motion.

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    We swing with couples now although we did include a single male and after that it wont happen again. We would consider a single female. We have 2 couples that we swing with and its better because we know them and have known them for a while. It is better in my opinion if you know them, I wouldnt want to be with just anybody right from the start we need to be friends first. We always swing in the same room and wouldnt think of doing it seperate.

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    Default Re: Swinging Options

    Originally posted by JustAskJulie
    Here's a few question regarding our swinging habits to let us all get to know each other better. If you haven't swung you feel free to reply with what you hope to do.

    Do you swing only with couples? Or do you enjoy singles as well?

    Just couples, but we'd love to find a single female


    If you only swing with couples, do you have just one couples that you play with? A small intimate group where you all only play within the group? Or do you meet new people on a regular basis to play with?

    We're trying to find some good friends to play with. SO far, no luck but we keep looking

    When playing with couples do you pair off and go to different rooms? Or do you all play together in one big group?

    One room, one bed seems the best. Maybe 1 bed, 1 couch. 1 room anyway.

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    We've only played with couples and always one couple at a time, although that has not been planned. We'd like to know several couples.

    We've enjoyed both separate and same-room playing but we like same-room better. Playing in separate rooms has gotten to be "old hat" with us with the same couple.

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    Default Re: Swinging Options

    Originally posted by JustAskJulie


    Do you swing only with couples? Or do you enjoy singles as well?


    Couples only, although I (Dan) am more receptive to including select singles. However, J wishes to stick to couples only.

    If you only swing with couples, do you have just one couples that you play with? A small intimate group where you all only play within the group? Or do you meet new people on a regular basis to play with?

    At present, only one couple, although a second couple is currently making overtures.

    When playing with couples do you pair off and go to different rooms? Or do you all play together in one big group?
    Same room, always. But separate beds is fine.

    Dan

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    We share with couples and single males or females. Just whoever is mutually interested. Generally together, may go solo after we get to know someone well.
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    We play with couples we also have single male and fermale playmates, we play in the same room sometimes others seperate, just depends.. we did have one couple we play ed with for about a year havent found anyone new just yet.. haveing good luck with the sls add though..
    Life is full of magick all we have to do is look arround.

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    Default Re: Swinging Options

    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie
    Here's a few question regarding our swinging habits to let us all get to know each other better. If you haven't swung you feel free to reply with what you hope to do.

    Do you swing only with couples? Or do you enjoy singles as well?
    We have only swung with couples so far. We would like to include a single bi-fem, but are not holding our breath. Although we originally started out not planning on playing with single men, it may happen someday.

    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie
    If you only swing with couples, do you have just one couples that you play with? A small intimate group where you all only play within the group? Or do you meet new people on a regular basis to play with?
    We try to meet new people anyway, not just to play with, but simply to expand our group of friends. If we click with another couple and end-up playing, all the better. But we don't expect or plan on it. At this time we have one couple we swing with when we can all get together, but we have others we have swung with that we'd hook-up with again given the chance.

    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie
    When playing with couples do you pair off and go to different rooms? Or do you all play together in one big group?
    We always play in just one big group. We can play alone by ourselves. Half the fun is the orgy.

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    Default Re: Swinging Options

    Only with Committed Couples. Although, a MFM is really appealing to me again. But it would definately have to be the 'right' single male.

    We have a small group that we play with. We do go out and meet new people often. But we are all very selective. We all play together in one big room usually. All of us are 'same room swingers'. We all enjoy going to clubs, so that is where you will often find us!
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    Default Re: Swinging Options

    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie
    Here's a few question regarding our swinging habits to let us all get to know each other better. If you haven't swung you feel free to reply with what you hope to do.

    Do you swing only with couples? Or do you enjoy singles as well?
    We have played with singles and couples. Wife has a lover we play with fairly regularly.

    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie
    If you swing with singles, is it just single males or single females or both?
    We have swung mostly with single males and the occational female.

    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie
    If you only swing with couples, do you have just one couples that you play with? A small intimate group where you all only play within the group? Or do you meet new people on a regular basis to play with?

    It's been new people so far. We have hoped to be part of a small intimate group, but have not found the right couples/singles yet for this to happen.


    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie
    When playing with couples do you pair off and go to different rooms? Or do you all play together in one big group?
    With the couples we have played with so far, we have started out in seperate rooms and then ended up all in a big group. We are open to same room for all play though as well.

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    Default Re: Swinging Options

    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie
    Do you swing only with couples? Or do you enjoy singles as well?
    As of right now we only play with couples but we are open to the idea of singles if the situation arises, we aren't going to go looking for it at this point.

    If you only swing with couples, do you have just one couples that you play with? A small intimate group where you all only play within the group? Or do you meet new people on a regular basis to play with?
    I guess we have a small intimate group, with things being so busy we have no desire to meet new playmates at this point.

    When playing with couples do you pair off and go to different rooms? Or do you all play together in one big group?
    Generally we all stay in the same room but sometimes we seperate. Ideally we like to play as one big group.
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