Mismatched couples

[JTcamp05]

This happens very often, at first glance you are not attracted to one part of the couple.


We found that sometimes too quick of judgements are made and that guy she wasn't into at first, turned out to be a really nice man. Of course its happened the other way too....the lady that I thought was wonderful, didn't live up to any expectations.

If a couple is mismaatched there is something that one sees in the other that might not catch your eye at first, but it may be worth sticking around to see what that one thing is!!

[Petethefuzzy]

Yes, we have noticed the same thing. Sometimes it's the female who is the lesser but usually it's the guy, sorry to say. But I suppose others look at US just that way. We find it works best for us to swing at private parties where there is a selection of other males and females and we are not expected to swing as a couple. The only problem with the private paties is that once the clothes come off you may not feel as free to say no to someone you really DON't want to play with. There was just such a "Motel party" last night. I wound up with three very fine ladies. My Sig. Other said there was two guys she just didn't want to play with at all so rather than having to say no, she didn't take her clothes off.